pleaseeee make ur own money and leave your parental home, never get married or have kids (unless you can actually afford it mentally and financially) travel as much as you can and stop explaining everything you do to your parents, make yourself as happy as you can.
Nobody prepares you for the fact that you will go through some of the most heart shattering experiences of your life and are still expected to show up for work. Take care of yourself. Pay your bills. Meet your goals. Just carry on… it’s awful
ages 25–30 are crucial. you’re accepting that your friend group is getting smaller, your parents are getting older, you’re cleaning up the financial mess from your early 20s, managing your career and health. and somehow, you still need to find time to heal your mind.
very unpopular opinion: marriage only benefits a woman when the man is truly providing, protecting and leading. otherwise she’s just adding extra responsibilities to a life she already manages alone.
My life got better when I realized I didn't have to be nice. Nice got me used, stressed out and disrespected. I'm not nice. I'm a good person. There's a difference.
I feel like the older u get, the more quiet you become. Life humbles you so deeply as you age. You realize how much nonsense you've wasted time on. You start to accept things for what they really are. You stop forcing friendships & connections with people & you just learn to grow