@hemingquay They also lean way too heavily on a few phrases. "Mine own". "Fortnight" (the later series of GOT did this too) despite it being current English for non-Americans.
It happened to me when one of my oldest and dearest friends, to this day the cleverest person I know, transitioned and started to refer to women who wanted single-sex changing rooms as 'genocidal'.
People getting mad at me for "turning" against the trans movement as some right wing psy op.
No.
It was being in leftist spaces watching how trans women spoke to & about women.
The overt misogyny that could never be critiqued no matter how inexcusable.
Y'all did it.