Menjaga anak dan rumahtangga sendiri pun sekarang dilabel sebagai “unpaid labour”, seolah-olah nilai sesuatu hanya diukur dengan duit semata-mata
Hakikatnya, wanita yang menjaga rumah, anak dan suami bukannya “tak dibayar”. Tapi, dia dibalas dalam bentuk perlindungan, keselamatan, tempat tinggal, kasih sayang, dan sebahagian besar cost komitment kehidupan dewasa tu dipikul oleh suami. Itu juga satu bentuk timbal balik dalam sebuah keluarga
Dari sudut agama, ganjaran tu jauh lebihh besar. Isteri yang mengurus rumah tangga dspat pahala, hatta even memasak makanan simple pun Allah bagi recognition tau
Dah boleh stop hidup berpaksikan barat and listen to this bullsh*t. Even orang Barat sendiri dah tak tahan dengan narratif diorang
Modern marriage is no longer about building together.
Many women want the benefits of marriage, but none of the responsibilities.
They want a wedding, not a marriage.
They want a provider, but they do not want to submit.
They want a loyal man, but they want to keep their options open.
And the worst part is, society teaches men that if the marriage fails, it is always the man’s fault.
Men are told to “do more,” “communicate more,” “pay more,” and “understand her more.”
But nobody tells women to respect, appreciate, and protect the man’s peace.
That is why many men fear marriage today, because they fear being punished for trying.
Modern women fight for the right to sleep around.
And then cry when men don’t want to marry them.
You can't glorify whoring…
And expect to be treated like a virgin bride.
Pick one.
When I first got married, I called my mom to complain about some argument my husband and I were having. My mom stopped me right there and said, "unless you are in danger, dont ever let anyone into your marriage, not even me". Its was the best advice I could've ever received as a young wife. It allowed me to take my concerns directly to my husband, think thru how I really feel without someone projecting themselves on me. Gatekeep the marriage.