to be in a healthy relationship you have to be able to talk about the things that bother you. BIG or SMALL, it will make a significant difference & can save a lot of unnecessary arguments. you can’t expect when you don’t communicate....
ok interestingly this is a rly good example of emotional labor. yr working at ur dumbass job that you get up at 6am for, tired af, and someone does something they think is cute but actually is almost unbearable/makes ur job harder. what do u do? service workers know: smile, a lot