Online and in media, women say “we wish men would approach us more.” That’s not wrong—but they’re often talking about being approached by the men they already find attractive (class-matched, tall, hot, high-status). They rarely mean “any man at the grocery store.”
“we all want love and kindness” is a sentiment and a narrative, but there are mechanics underlying dating and romance. for all the talk of equality or finding 'the right fit for you' and other vague and flowery sentiments, it is effectively a market. Value, supply, and demand.
@Serenity3000@ItIsHoeMath Good points on niceness. When it's genuine it's done to whoever - even if you aren't necessarily attracted to the women.
Niceness purely for gain is not niceness, that's a [soft] form of manipulation. Niceness to make people's day better, is genuine niceness.
@pantsbobsponge@EntropyFreeAll@Lunnzies@Rothmus Also the guy like, legitimately died for her. He made the ultimate sacrifice for her benefit.
I think after remembering all this she's allowed to have deep sentiment and gratitude 🤷
Sorta realized that most women are not 'good', they're just soft and often shirk responsibility for hard decisions.
When you're weak you're incapable of doing right or wrong