"If he wanted to he would" is a phrase every grown woman should live by. Like if he wants to talk to you, he will. If he wants to take care of you, he will. If he wants to see you, he will. If he Wants to make a relationship work, he will move mountains. It's really that simple!
my mom says it’s disrespectful for a young man to wait all day & then want to see you at night. regardless of the situation. she says it’s 24hrs in a day & if seeing me isn’t big enough to do during the day then don’t come. that’s stuck with me.
there's nothing more embarrassing than looking back at a relationship with someone and seeing all the ways you settled. all the times you begged for attention, a text back, a phone call, a date, reassurance. all of those things should be a given
Life changes. You lose love.
You lose friends. You lose pieces of yourself that you never imagined would be gone. And then, without you even realizing it, these pieces come back. New love enters. Better friends come along. And a stronger, wiser you is staring back in the
you can be emotionally mature in some aspects & immature in others. you’re still human. you won’t always know what will trigger you until it does. i don’t strive to be perfect because that sounds more harmful than helpful. i strive to improve & feel great when i realize i have.
Relationships are much sweeter when you and your partner are actual FRIENDS. You turn up together, gossip together, talk honestly, have fun, and generally vibe like besties. They shouldn’t replace your original friends but it’s great when your dynamic is more than just romantic.