I love immigrants
I love lesbians
I love trans people
I love queers
I love homeless people
I fucking hate republicans
I love women
I love fat people
I love sex workers
I love abortion
I love addicts
I love freaks
Realizing that you’re incompatible with someone (because they don’t meet your BASIC standards of courtesy, respect and reciprocation) and choosing to walk away instead of forcing it/blaming yourself/fantasizing about their potential is a superpower. Look how much you’ve grown.
Sometimes we hope for love back from people who were never equipped to return it. That’s why it’s counterproductive to take their lack of reciprocity personal. Maybe they’re like this with everyone. They don’t have the means yet. So move on and start giving to someone who does.