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Check out my new blog / Targeted & Entrapped: Understanding the Quicksand Model® of Coercive Control.
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If you are still struggling to determine whether abuse and coercive control are intentional or not, check out my most popular blog on the topic. #coercivecontrol #CoerciveController #QuicksandModel
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Is anybody else tired of the constant #VictimBlaming that is associated with being harmed by a #CoerciveController? I sure am!
Check out my latest blog that debunks the #mythofmutualabuse
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Does your #CoerciveController use #DARVO and #PAS to avoid accountability in #FamilyCourt?
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Is coercive control intentional? Read my latest blog on the coercive controller's use of the Double Team to turn others against their targeted victim.
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Exactly! Smiling photos are meaningless when determining if a person is #Abusive or a #CoerciveController
I have a case in which that exact thing is happening. The mother is being pathologized for the harms caused by the #CoerciveController and he's being excused, using the same "diagnosis". The "pro" isn't even qualified to diagnose anything. Thank you for your work @DrJessTaylor
What is absolutely vital to understand about the use of psychiatry in family and criminal court is that it is so subjective and can be bent into any shape; that the same ‘mental health issues’ can be used to DEFEND your abuser as innocent, misunderstood, or needing support, at the exact same time as DISCREDITING you as dangerous, delusional, unreliable, and unstable.
These ‘disorders’ can be used however the professional wants to use them, depending on how they see you. Not only is the so-called ‘diagnostic’ process completely subjective, but so is everything else surrounding it.
This is why I fight so hard for complete reform.
I highly recommend @coercivecontrol and her safe parenting program. It is designed to assist #SafeParents who have lost their children and/or are being abused by a #CoerciveController
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I was reading a thread earlier about mothers who have lost their children either to long term Foster care, adoption or to their ex partner.
Every single one said they don't know how to carry on. They don't want to wake to another day without them.
They miss getting up with them in the morning, tucking them into bed at night and everything in between.
Some have been on domestic abuse courses as that's how they've lost their children.
Some are getting by because they've had another child so they have to. Others who have a child still in their care find it difficult as they miss the child or children they don't have.
They don't know how to explain why they've been able to keep a sibling and not their other child.
I cant help wonder to myself where do these people go for help and support. Especially when the child has been with them all this time.
I think of some of the father's who have lost their children and shouldn't have. Where do they go?
Surely we need to do something and there should be a service for this?
Surely they should be support after court for them?
I'm sure someone was running something not so long ago.
But I can't remember who they were.
I think this is so vitally important and all we see is desperation in these people. I'm afraid their will be more suicides.
#child #parents #FamilyCourt #FamilyLaw
#CoerciveControl is ignored in #Texas! #DomesticViolence is ignored by #TexasFamilyCourts and perpetrators are emboldened to escalate, as this man did, to #Femicide. When the #CoerciveController doesn't kill you, he exploits gaps in the system to steal your children etc.
“He had "obsessive" tendencies. He wouldn’t let her go out, he didn’t let her have friends, he didn’t let her be herself," she said. "He wouldn’t let her be. That’s why my daughter wanted to get away from him. He would control her psychologically at all times." #coercivecontrol
In #FamilyCourt abused children are forced to “reunite”’with their abusers. They are ordered to costly unproven “reunification” treatments/camps. Their @safe_parents -seeking to protect them- have been accused of “alienating” by abusers & ‘experts’
WATCH https://t.co/GTpxv2Tlvu

The chaos is still unfolding, as I predicted in @YorksBylines over a year ago. It’s what happens when people get sucked in by a #CoerciveController. In this case, sadly, it was enough people in the UK to hand the reigns of power to one https://t.co/BU6bnXFkZk
“The common denominator in all this is Boris Johnson. You people sit there as Tory MPs & you defend this guy. You’ve got people like Rees-Mogg and Dorries, who all back this guy to this day. I don’t think anyone here should be surprised at the chaos this man created”
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@dave43law The chaos is still unfolding, as I predicted in @YorksBylines over a year ago. It’s what happens when people get sucked in by a #CoerciveController. In this case, sadly, it was enough people in the UK to hand the reigns of power to one https://t.co/BU6bnXFkZk
If a #TargetOfCoerciveControl is emotional, they are found "not credible", if they don't show emotion, they "aren't afraid" of the #CoerciveController. #DoubleBinds #QuicksandModel
Judge - Mother spoke clearly and was very specific with accounts ,dates of events yet lacked emotion I don't believe she feared Mr A
MOTHER can relay her lived experiences like the weatherman relays the weather because she is so traumatised and disconnected
Trauma
#PostSeparationAbuse is a continuation of #CoerciveControl… and it can be even more damaging, because the #CoerciveController often uses others to #DoubleTeam the targeted victim, which can be devastating… & even fatal
I think post separation abuse is consistently ignored and is just as damaging as #DomesticAbuse itself.
You've fought to get free and you aren't free because of the post separation abuse and control.
#FamilyLaw is notorious for allowing this to happen.
The police, social workers and even #IDVAs don't seem to grasp the seriousness of this.
More & more my clients are being monitored, not just so the #CoerciveController can control them, but also to increase fear, so the perpetrator can then use it, re-framed as “paranoia”, to falsely claim there’s something wrong with the victim, and play the victim themselves
It can take all forms. I worked on a case where the perpetrator programmed his partner's phone so that all the calls were forwarded to his phone so no one could be contact with her without his knowledge.
Superbly said! When a #CoerciveController #DoubleTeams their partner/ex-partner in these ways the #Torture of #BioPsychoSocialQuicksand and #CoerciveControl make escape impossible. We must #PivotToThePerpetrator and hold them accountable!
Domestic violence perpetrator manipulation of systems is a critical problem that undermines responses to family violence and deeply impacts adult and child survivors in many ways. Perpetrators manipulate systems to bolster their own power and abuse and to control adult and child survivors further. For example, they use false allegations of criminal behavior, parental alienation, and “failure to protect” to target survivors, their children, and the professionals involved with the family. Perpetrators’ successful manipulation of systems compounds, reinforces and legitimizes their power, increasing both the survivors’ sense of their own powerlessness and the perpetrator’s seeming omnipotence. Sadly, the perpetrators’ use of these systems is often successful: Adult survivors can lose their freedom, their children, and their physical and mental health. Harassment via repeated reporting and/or litigation can also deplete survivors’ finances in addition to wasting public resources. As a result, adult and child survivors often lose trust in the systems that are supposed to protect them. https://t.co/tiqRkZeSBH
I see #DARVO in every case I work on that has a #CoerciveController operating to undermine the health safety and well-being of their adult and child victims. Read more on my blog
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I worked from home while being abused by a #CoerciveController. He got fired to monitor & sabotage me. He was with me 24/7 to isolate, torture & terrorize. He ripped my entire life to shreds while I carried nearly 100% of the financial, business, household & childcare burden.
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