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In today’s Times of India Suhana Khan, daughter of Shahrukh Khan, recently, at a public event, praised Alia Bhatt, daughter of Mahesh Bhatt, for being a role model for environmental sustainability by destigmatizing wearing the same ensemble multiple times through her repeating an outfit for a public event. Of course, this made me realize how much I, son of the generation that is bequeathing to its next-generation a climate crisis, have done for sustainable living by wearing not just the same clothes twice, but many times, but also underwear without washing during student days, conserving water in the process. No, I kid. While this display of privilege from a superstar kid is funny and worth making fun of, as I just did, it still obscures a more significant point: privilege. Just as Suhana Khan's perspective on virtue might seem absurd to us, it's worth remembering that if we were public figures and our conversations were public domain, we would appear as out-of-touch with reality by those lower on the totem pole of privilege. If someone who struggles to put two square meals for their family heard us complain about lousy service at a restaurant or someone who has to walk miles to get drinking water heard us having a conversation about how awful flying has become, we would be as meme-worthy. Just as Donald Trump thinks he built his own business after being given millions of dollars (in the seventies) by his father, many of us feel we got to where we are by dint of our "own hard work," being similarly blind to things we take for granted. In an actor's roundtable, Ananya Pandey, daughter of Chunkey Pandey, wanted the audience to believe her life had not been easy because her father was not Bollywood royalty, as evidenced by him not being a guest on Karan Johar's show, to which Siddhanth Chaturvedi, an actor in the same program and with not her privilege, had quipped that where other people's dreams end, Ananya Pandey's struggle begins there. Game, set, and match, except that Chaturvedi, son of a Chartered Accountant, is as unaware of his privilege as Ananya Pandey is. Sure, his privilege is less than that of Ananya Pandey in Bollywood, but that does not mean that the starting point of his struggle isn't also the terminus of the dreams of millions of others. And yes, the same applies to us.