a lot of women don’t internalize a very simple signal which is that if someone doesn’t ask you questions, isn’t curious, doesn’t sustain momentum or continuity in conversation, then either they don’t like you or they’re socially inept. neither of which is good for you in any way shape or form.
questions are the gateway to discovery.. of yourself & of another person. love is basically sustained curiosity. like consistent active curiosity about someone’s inner state.
if someone never asks you questions, they don’t fucking like you. full stop. this is prolly one of the things that matter the most long term in any relationship.
I’m old enough to remember the argument for Alabama over FSU in 2023 being about FSU limping to the finish line (while winning) and wanting to pick teams that were the “best” now.
But a blowout loss yesterday apparently didn’t matter.
“Billy, this is AJ Brown. He's an elite physical talent, and one of the best receivers in the league...
The downside is Jalen Hurts doesn't know he's on the Eagles”