@charlattemilk@misszombiedoll @haleyeill He is not in therapy. It is hard and I feel for him, but I canโt let his illness affect my mental health. It changes you over time when you constantly have to worry about everything you do or say. Iโm sorry you are also going through this.
@charlattemilk@misszombiedoll @haleyeill Iโve been married for 20 years to someone with BPD. Through therapy I have learned that Iโm not responsible for his mental illness, he is. Itโs not okay for the BPD person to treat others how ever they want with no consequences. Trisha is not the victim here, sheโs the problem.