@AvoidTheVo1d@soomtm_ I wonder why is that, most people who GIVE attention are males but unless ur in a bit bulky build, other males just ignore you in favor for cute girls
@soomtm_ Tragically often they make the fallacious assumption that a beautiful costume equals a beautiful cosplay, without ever needing to look in a mirror. That's why they can't fathom that women with more simplistic outfits who genuinely take care of their look get better recognition
@soomtm_ Also, one thing that explains a lot about it is that the most men in amateur cosplay spaces, while enthusiastic about putting together something elaborate, lack the fundamental social instinct of trying to "look good" with it (while this is a very widespread concern among women)
@JCcannon367061@soomtm_ I've seen tons of men who just wear a wig that they got from a cow's mouth and will call that a cosplay so the competition is right there
@ErrantSun7@soomtm_ I styled a wig as a small commission for a dude and when I saw him at the con he was wearing the wig WRONG ( loopsided)...The wig for the character HE likes, that HE told me to style and HE put on himself...like I just can't
weight training is genuinely the laziest sport with the greatest payoff yet people still choose to do pilates stairmaster assblaster cockbending circuits 30 day challenges 8 times a week and then wonder why they cant stick to it and achieve their goals