Genuinely valuable skill, especially if youâre an autistic person who doesnât really know how to initiate.
Giving context humanises you and makes you way more approachable.
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Sarah Wayne Callies opens up about being humiliated by a group of male coworkers while shooting the final season of âPrison Breakâ, as producers and directors stood by.
Sarah Wayne Callies: We were sitting around one day, we were shooting a scene, and there was this p*rn video that was going around called 2 Chics 1 Cup that I've never seen. But we were sitting around a table, and the guys started texting it to each other and watching it and laughing.
And I don't give a fuck, you know what I mean? Like, do whatever you want to do. We weren't shooting; they were setting up a shot. And then they started saying, "Oh Kelly's, that looks like you, that's you." And they went on this whole like, it was a fascinating dynamic in retrospect because every one of them individually, was a friend. But they became a wolf pack, like, immediately. And I'm looking around, I'm the only girl, right? Like, this was...
Jon Bernthal: Wow.
Sarah Wayne Callies: What, 2008?
Jon Bernthal: Yeah.
Sarah Wayne Callies: Yeah, it would have been 2008. Um, 'cause I'd just had the baby. and I was like, "No, seriously, knock it off. I don't like being called a shit-eating wh*re." and they doubled down. And one of the people at that table at the time was a very, very close friend. And I was looking over, going, "He's got the most power of anybody in this room. All he's got to do is say..."
Jon Bernthal: "Shut that shit down."
Sarah Wayne Callies: "...Hey, leave her alone." Yeah. That's all it would have taken. Like, no grandstanding, no fist fights, no nothing. Just, fucking leave her alone. Nothing. And I got to a point where I was like, well, I'm not going to cry. So, I'm not going to say anything.
And I mean, producers, directors, 1st ADs all standing around, all seeing this, all hearing this. And I was like, "Hmm." It was a moment, and this happens as a woman walking through the world when all of a sudden you're like, "Oh, I'm way more vulnerable than I realized I was." And just emotionally, like no one was going to hurt me. But my fucking feelings were hurt! You know what I mean? I was like, "Oh, I thought we were friends." But if you can sit here and call me a shit-eating wh*re over my objections in the workplace, maybe I've misjudged this situation.