One idea that has revolutionized my thinking is this: you are allowed to not want things.
You can look at everything society tells you that you need to have and just be like, “Nope. I will not be participating.”
Cape Town is a South African city and belongs to Black South Africans as much as Nelspruit, Johannesburg and Mafikeng. Please stop referring it to as mini Europe. Not even as a joke.
Not being dependent on any man is so cool because you don’t have to care at all. It’s nice if you do eventually fall in love and if he takes great care of you but it’s so awesome to actually be able to be ok by yourself. 10 stars!
When a man likes you, he talks. When a man values you, he plans. When a man is serious about you, he acts and put efforts.
Words without proof rot.
Intention lives in behavior, not promises.
I promise you don’t need to shrink yourself or think you need to act a particular way to get a man. You don’t need it because you see those women that are genuine with their madness, craziness and kindness, they got who they wanted without shrinking themselves. Just do you.
We all deserve Sunday rest without overthinking about tomorrow. Enjoy your day, sleep, watch Kdrama and Netflix, spoil yourself with the food you want, and love yourself.