I don't know if this is the case with you, but I know a lot of households where the kitchen is the woman's territory, it was off limits to any man. If a man was hungry he had to rely on his wife to do the cooking and he couldn't go into the kitchen to fix himself something even if he wanted to. Then of course that wife would later complain that she has to do all the cooking and that he never helps out with any of it. (yeah i'm sure he would help out if you would let him you fucking hypocrite!)
@RealDianeYap Of course in your eyes "love" is choosing to stay with someone even if they treat you like complete shit, of course that only applies if the man is the one getting the shit treatment, not the woman.
Well the left is always saying "Women are oppressed" and "Men are oppressors" I'm sure at least a few women heard that and were like "I don't want to be oppressed. Hey I know! I'll just become a man!" and a few men were like "I don't want to be an oppressor. Hey I know! I'll just become a woman"...only to realize afterwards that things really didn't get any better for them.
As a gay man the same age as Vance, I can unequivocally confirm:
—He is not “a hottie,” he’s disgusting
—“His eyes!” are unremarkable beyond how soulless and empty they are
—Far from “so smart!,” he’s a moron
—I wish no men were like him, and so does his own wife