People are getting mad at Zayn for saying he was never in love with Gigi (the mother of his child) and sure, that’s wild.
But they’re missing the real lesson here.
He said: “If I had been in love, I would’ve been a better version of myself.”
That’s the entire point, imo.
When a man truly loves you, he doesn’t stagnate. He will upgrade, regulate, become disciplined, idk do whatever is required to fix what’s broken without you having to beg/ask/try.
In my opinion (and Zayn’s words confirm this) love makes a man aspire. It sharpens him, makes him want to build, protect, provide, evolve because he wants to be worthy of the life you’re building together.
You cannot “fix” a man. You shouldn’t. Guy who loves you will fix himself. It’s what they do.
And if he isn’t becoming better with you, he simply isn’t in love.
Lesson in there ✌���
i will be at the 2026 bts world tour🕯️
i will be at the 2026 bts world tour🕯️
i will be at the 2026 bts world tour🕯️
i will be at the 2026 bts world tour🕯️
i will be at the 2026 bts world tour🕯️
i will be at the 2026 bts world tour🕯️
i will be at the 2026 bts world tour🕯️
“you’re so private and mysterious” girl, i literally just stay home unless i’m going to work or see the people who are kind to me. idk what else to say.
This is one of the reasons why I’m so hyper independent, I don’t want anyone to ever feel like they can make me feel small in this way all bc “they helped me”
Redah je. Do it afraid, do it tired, do it even when you think you’re not good enough, you’re not ready. You will improve along the way. That fear is not a bad thing. That fear shows you’re self aware. Fearful people are careful.
But don’t just be fearful, be hopeful too.
my biggest 🚩 is that i’ve normalised silent treatment when im not in mood for a talk. i don’t really know how to express my feelings especially when im sad and hurt. i only talk to myself in my head about how i feel all the time.
Dah lama masuk umur malas nak gaduh betulkan cerita ke apa, serah kat Allah je. Tak balas kat dunia, balas kat akhirat. Sekarang energy hanya cukup untuk diri sendiri & loved ones je.
i saw a TikTok about a girl saying how she doesn't stay mad for long because either she's going to figure it out, or there's nothing that can be done about it. and as simple as that sounds is as simple as it is really