❓ what color r ur eyes
💬 Green! I live in Asia where that is exceptionally rare so I get comments in it all the time 😅 #tellonym https://t.co/NtmCSqFZu3
@X_Bill_Gl Fwiw I used to work with ppl with delusions for whatever reason and joining them where they are at and helping them stay safe is an unironic therapeutic skill to work with these ppl bc "breaking the delusion" can be extremely distressing & counter productive
Every single time I see a 19-24 year old girl moving in with her boyfriend to ‘escape’ a toxic home, I sob for her.
Like actually cry.
Because 9 times out of 10… she just traded one nightmare for a worse one.
The boyfriend who “rescues” her usually becomes the new cage. Different face, same (or heavier) control.
Please protect these young girls. The grass isn’t greener — it’s just a different patch of dirt. 💔
@heshidicjudaism The correct move is to ask about her name. "Who named you?" "What is the story behind your name?" "Did your parents have any alternate names they were considering" it always comes up in that convo
Ok I’ve been this 18yo woman.
Let me break it down for you.
You’re 18 and you cry when someone says something mean about you in the school play.
But he’s an adult, so he tells you to toughen up and quit being emotional.
So you don’t feel safe processing your feelings like a normal teenager.
You’re 18, and you want to hang out in the park with the other teenagers and gossip.
But he’s an adult, so he tells you to grow up and stop being so immature.
So you stop seeing your friends, and your socialisation with your peers becomes harder.
You’re 18, and you’ve never had a big argument with a partner before, so you’re really confused and upset.
But he’s an adult, so he tells you you’re childish, crazy, and he’s disappointed.
So you feel ashamed of acting your age and wonder if there is something wrong with you.
You’re 18, and you’re really worried about your exam results coming out next week.
But he’s an adult, so he tells you that you should look into retaking classes if you are serious, or stop being so dramatic.
So you suffer in silence and learn your partner won’t understand if you need comfort.
Can age gaps work? Yes.
But honey, if you’re a teen and reading this: date another teen.
@vavawonyoung She was also a (slightly) older woman with many many more years of experience and she started dating him when he was a trainee and she was a senior idol. She was the one who wanted to go public and killed the momentum he and ptg had completely bc she was selfish
@Garrett_Watts This Juniper or junnie for short! Shes a netherland dwarf bunny! One of her eyes is half blue and half brown so she moonlights the main character in a YA novel
“Russophobic” they made me this way.
I learned Russian before Ukrainian so what was my reward?
My friends were killed. My home was taken. My community was destroyed. I was tortured and given a death sentence. I’m alive only because they wanted a swap.
That’s not “Russophobia.” That’s reality.
#RussiaIsATerroristState
the dating pool for young women is literally:
- porn addicts
- "sensitive" guys you have to perform constant emotional labour for
- narcissistic (if not sociopathic) gym bros
- emotionally distant manipulators
- performative "woke" men who still treat women like sh*t
@memeticsisyphus Gentle parenting =/= permissive parenting. Gentle parenting is very structured, but within that structure you do things to foster independence and autonomy