When I was younger, I thought I needed a partner as deep as me… oceanic… endless. Now I know my spirit thrives w/ someone who can hold my waters, NOT mirror them. My depth doesn’t need a twin tide; it needs a steady shore.
People are allowed to grieve and talk about mistreatment they’ve endured. They are not required to be the perfect victim, they don’t have to heal in a way that makes sense to you
anger is only ugly if you don’t learn how to understand and communicate the feeling fueling it. anger is a secondary emotion, meaning it typically stems from other emotions. if you practice talking with your core emotional needs, anger becomes easier to navigate
friendly reminder https://t.co/zMTseN04VY is a database that can help you find your local food banks (and a plethora of other resources).
if you’re in need locate them. if you have the means, donate to them. we need each other more than ever right now. please share!
I feel so blessed to finally have a man that I crave the presence of even when I want the rest of the world to leave me alone. To have a husband that’s so calming for my nervous system is a true blessing.
“sorry for trauma dumping” bro i literally love and care for you? it’s an honour to learn about the complex and subtle ways that life has shaped you? i hope to be your trusted friend and confidant for the rest of my days?
iris by goo goo dolls really is insane though. I'd give up forever to touch you? you're the closest to heaven I'll ever be? all I can breathe is your life? and I don't want the world to see me cause I don't think they'd understand? when everything's meant to be broken I just want you to know who I am? does anyone hear me.
So unsettling and evil to just kill an apartment full of people and talk about it in a group chat like it was just nothing. Human lives made so completely abstract that they’re even less than numbers.
I spent the last year feeling so incredibly alone and this morning I woke up next to my husband for the first time in 6 months and we finally live together again and get to start our new chapter and I am so happy