my hobbies:
1. switching between the same three apps for hours.
2. listening to the same songs i have been listening to for 20 years.
3. imagining myself in situations that will literally never exist.
real ao3 losers know the best way to search is to just stalk the bookmarks of users who write great comments on fics you love or the bookmarks of authors you love themselves
i think it's important to have something to look forward to every day or every week, so when life drains you, it’ll help you to remember that you need to keep going a little longer because there's something waiting for you at the end of the week that might make you smile again.
@littleguanshans "Why do you even care what they're saying" because they think they can go around and dictate what people can and can't do 😭 with their obsessive harassment and obnoxious talking how they're sooooo much better than us. go outside GOD
@honeybreaths Adults are the ones writing, creating, organizing, translating, buying merch, and keeping fandoms alive. Fandom isn’t something you magically age out of the real issue is inappropriate behavior, not someone’s age.
"adults shouldn't be in fandoms" you mean the ppl who are writing the fics you read and enjoy every day? the people who do most for a fandom in general? 😭 or do you believe that all of your favorite fics were written by a 15yo? this argument doesn't make sense on so many levels
being sensitive is so embarrassing. how am i supposed to tell you that i am upset because your vibes are slightly off, and it made me feel like you hate me?
I would take it a step further: raise daughters to be interesting to themselves.
Encourage them to read widely, learn continuously, develop skills, pursue passions, and explore the world with curiosity. Those investments compound over a lifetime so they can build a life that feels meaningful, fulfilling, and uniquely their own.
Please raise your daughters to have hobbies, interests, and academics...so when they become adults and middle-aged women they have something to talk about besides a man.
"sekarang gabisa becanda gabisa ngapa ngapain nanti dituduh kekerasan seksual" BAGUS aku mau semua laki-laki dibumi dirumah aja bahkan takut unjuk muka ke dunia
girls really are never spared from misogyny from the womb because wdym of ur ugly when ur pregnant its a girl and if u glow its a boy? LISTEN TO YOURSELVES 😭
Sure, I’m a reader, but that doesn’t mean I actually read all the time. Sometimes I go months without touching a book, and other times I will finish a book in one sitting.