My favorite flex is staying soft hearted, while becoming mentally stronger, for I know growth doesn't require losing kindness, only learning where to place it carefully.
Super beautiful, really beautiful when you meet somebody who is attracted to your heart and instead of draining it dry they actually thrive to protect it
Find audacity. There is nothing that will help you more in this life than audacity, find it, let it push you to do things , to silence the noise , to go back to school, to leave the country, to start a business, to do things . To fight for your life.