I will never understand how an entire generation got brainwashed into thinking kids are a burden instead of a blessing.
Being a mom is the most important & beautiful job a woman can have.
If you are sharing a bed, sharing bodily fluids, and planning to build a whole life and raise children with someone, the idea that your phone is a "highly classified, impenetrable vault of extreme privacy" is a massive red flag. If your partner picking up your phone to check the time or change a song causes your heart rate to spike, you are not protecting your "autonomy," you are hiding something. Period.