That painful experience a few days weeks months or years ago might have actually been for the best…
Who knows what good it has done for you?
I often think about this…
If you feel stuck and you already tried everything on your individual level to change it, it might not be you, it might be the system you are in.
In that case: Try to improve the system around you.
Rearranging the furniture in your apartment won’t work if the room is too small for all of your stuff.
If you feel stuck as an individual, as a team, or as an organization, it may be worth zooming out and finding the root cause of your problem.
You hide the numbers.
You soften the feedback.
You keep the real information behind closed doors.
At first, everything seems fine.
People stay calm.
No difficult conversations.
Weeks pass.
Then months.
The team feels stuck.
Progress slows.
No one quite knows why.
You start steering more, correcting more, managing more tightly.
Then one day you realize the system has lost its ability to self-correct.
When information and metrics are visible people naturally adjust.
They reduce waste.
They fix problems early.
They contribute ideas.
But when it stays hidden, the whole organization loses that power.
Only the leaders who choose radical transparency understand what changes.
The rest keep pushing harder on a system that can no longer steer itself.
Then something powerful happens:
when the truth becomes visible to everyone, alignment appears, and real progress begins to compound.
Your relentless drive to cut everything is destroying your system’s ability to survive tough times.
Every extra resource you remove feels like progress. Every bit of slack you eliminate feels like strength.
But you are not building a better system. You are stripping away its ability to recover when things go wrong.
When the inevitable crisis hits, there will be nothing left to absorb the blow.
Burn this illusion down. Ease the constant pressure. Put back the buffers that let you adapt and keep going.
Only then will your system rediscover its real power:
the ability to face chaos and come out stronger on the other side.
I have a deep question to you, since I also have this conflict in myself.
We both argue, that social media is not good for us and that scrolling destroys our focus and true progress. But we still use put out content in a feed ourselves to promote the message that scrolling is bad. So aren't we indirectly contributing to people scrolling even more with creating content for social media?
Far too often we take a diagnosis as given and retreat from our own accountability to change something. There are always things you can do yourself to improve your situation:
- taking enough and consistent rest and sleep
- a healthy diet
- reduction of noise, clutter, and information overload.
🌍 A list of data breaches from around the world (incomplete)
Use a password manager. Keep on top of breaches. Use aliases. Minimize data. Stay safe.
🌐 Global platforms
- Meta: 533 million users' details scraped and leaked online (2021)
- LinkedIn: 700 million profiles scraped and put up for sale (2021)
- Cambridge Analytica: data of up to 87 million Facebook users harvested (2018)
- Twitter / X: 5.4 million accounts exposed through an API flaw (2022)
- Clearview AI: entire client list stolen (2020); the firm was built on ~3 billion images scraped without consent
🇬🇧 United Kingdom
- British Airways: ~429,000 customers' personal and payment data (2018)
- TalkTalk: ~157,000 customers (2015)
🇺🇸 United States
- Marriott / Starwood: up to ~383 million guest records (2018)
🇭🇰 Hong Kong
- Cathay Pacific: 9.4 million passengers (2018)
🇸🇬 Singapore
- SingHealth: 1.5 million patients, including the Prime Minister (2018)
🇦🇺 Australia
- Optus: ~10 million current and former customers (2022)
- Medibank: 9.7 million customers, including health data (2022)
🇮🇳 India
- Aadhaar: personal data of the ~1.1 billion-enrolled national ID system left exposed through access-control failures (2018)
🇰🇷 South Korea
- SK Telecom: ~23 million customers' SIM/identifier data (2025)
🇿🇦 South Africa
- TransUnion: credit-bureau data on roughly 3–5 million consumers (2022)
🇰🇪 Kenya
- Safaricom: ~11.5 million subscribers' data, in an alleged insider breach (2019)
If you think you have a scar on your face, you will feel worse treated and evaluated during a discussion or meeting, even if you don’t have the scar in your face anymore.
That explains a lot.
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