ru paul has an entire multimillion dollar show about she/her gays. you hear gays call each other women every day. you just dont micromanage it because you arent socially trained to put men up to the same scrutiny you put on women
The perception that women’s breasts are “offensive” or overly sexualized, while men’s are not is overwhelmingly a cultural construct, not a universal biological absolute, and is heavily shaped by Christian and Abrahamic modesty norms.