As a women , I fight everyday to learn how to be calm and soft. Iโm so use having my guards up to the point . Itโs weird to soften up at times. I pray to God everyday to continue to guide me on this journey ๐๐ฝ๐ฑ. Because all honest I do want be a soft women. I want to be able trust and not always be so defensive on some situations. As you get older , you have to look at yourself and make changes for you and your life for the Betterโค๏ธ.