Women are out here sharing live locations, checking the backseats of cars, and holding their hands over their drinks. Men are doing 3 hour podcasts about how unfair it is that we don't smile at them. The disconnect is fatal.
You will never be perfect, but it is important to think highly of yourself. You will never be a finished product, but it is important to celebrate yourself as you are.
Losing respect for people is lowkey liberation. The moment you clock how fickle, performative, and straight-up unserious folks can be… you breathe easier. You realize you’re actually doing great…. you just needed firmer boundaries and a cleaner lens.
Suddenly their opinions stop holding weight. Real life doesn’t move on their validation anyway.
So shake the room. Upset whoever gets upset. Be unapologetic. Be loud. Be brazen. Be YOU.
and let the world adjust.
The greatest thing about life is that it begins again every morning. The Creator blesses those with the courage to change. It’s okay to want differently, to choose differently.
It’s okay to re-imagine yourself.