I Can Do This!

I am a survivor .. Living life after my husband's affair. James 1:13-15

[I Can Do This! @hurttothecore]

@MacsamomSmith @Infidelityscars It will get better! I am going on 4 years in November and I feel good! There is a light! ❤️

[Samuel_Healing @Infidelityscars]

You can and will outlive this pain. Yes, even the pain you feel right now that seems unsolvable. You can and will. Don’t give up on you or your recovery work. You are worth it #unfaithful and #betrayed alike. #infidelity

[Samuel_Healing @Infidelityscars]

Start. Back. Up. Today. You can do it. Courageously dream again. #infidelity #healing #GetBackUp

[I Can Do This! @hurttothecore]

@AnnaMarieRouge_ It is certainly hard remembering this. Hard to not think “if I had just done this or not done that”. I know it wasn’t my fault, but it doesn’t always feel that way!

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@affair_recovery I know it is me that is harboring all the anger and only me that can let it go! Some days, I just can’t and other days, I am just fine! 😞

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@affair_recovery This is EXACTLY where I am! I am moving forward .. I know this is where I want to be, and then suddenly, one day, out of the blue, I am dragged back to all the anger and memories! I am exactly 2 years outside of DDay and I hate it!

[Samuel_Healing @Infidelityscars]

The trauma of #infidelity is exactly that: shattering. Courtesy of @emdrconsult #affair #affairrecovery #healing #emdr #ptsd

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@CheatedOn314 Couldn’t have said it better!!!

[Crisis Wife @thecrisiswife]

Be intentional. Take a day off of all the "maybes."
After #betrayal it is normal to feel overwhelmed by even the smallest decision. #Healing

[Samuel_Healing @Infidelityscars]

Truth. #infidelity #healing #affairrecovery

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@authordolly So I am with you ... until he proves me wrong, and I too am always looking, I have committed to stay!

[I Can Do This! @hurttothecore]

@authordolly My situation is very similar to yours. My husband is remorseful & working hard to make things right. I don't believe he would do it again.

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@CheatedOn314 @sideline_view So true!

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@Dawn_ByTheCreek I still jump when I get a Facebook msg since his AP's husband contacted me that way at 4:00a. Just the sound of the tone turns my stomach! 💔

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@HealingSouls1 Here too!!!

[Samuel_Healing @Infidelityscars]

So true. Be intentional and break free from the malaise of it all.
#infidelity
borrowed from @authordolly

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@grace4amanda @4aTimeLikeNOW Yep! I hate to think it will always be that way. I don't talk about it often, except on here .. and that is when the bitterness hits! 😳

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@4aTimeLikeNOW @grace4amanda I agree. I surprise myself how I can still sound so bitter ... even when I am having a good day.

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@SMHHealingHope @grace4amanda I just feel like I should have had some insight, read into something or figured it out before I got that devastating text from her husband!

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@authordolly @grace4amanda I am still shocked. My husband isn't even outgoing .. guess that is why he found some loser whore online!