i'm convinced when you REKINDLE a relationship with someone (friend, family, ex, etc ) something will ALWAYS resurface to show you why you should have left it burned and dried up.
My biggest flex is privacy! It's the fact that nobody knows where I'm at, what I'm doing, or who I'm talking to etc unless I want it to be known. Therefore anything said about me is just an assumption. Keep a certain privacy to your life, it's rare these days.
healing really begins when you allow yourself to get to a place where you are not constantly invalidating how you feel. no more repressing, minimizing or doubting your right to feel things.
So why put Kim through all that.. “I feel uncomfortable when my wife is in outfits that are too sexy” if your now wife is in outfits that are too sexy.