Gandalf

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[Gandalf @iamgandaalf]

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While I agree that the quality of men now, are on a decline. For the most part this is because of the disruption in the dynamics of the family union. We have more feminine men than masculine men, Toxic masculinity and feminism which is a catalyst to that.
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[kingsley okonkwo @kingsleypst]

Ladies and gentlemen we have a crisis!

I'm very concerned about the quality of men out there these days…

I stand to be corrected but it seems the gap between men and women in terms of quality is widening, it’s getting harder to find solid men

[Gandalf @iamgandaalf]

Women submit well at work but wouldn't do same at home.

[Gandalf @iamgandaalf]

@instablog9ja Even men choose their battle wisely, then don't go into fights with fellow men much stronger than them. They know when to retreat, they respect limits

A lot of women want to get away with every bad behaviour. They don't want consequences, respects no limits.

Very nauseating 🤢

[Gandalf @iamgandaalf]

Even men choose their battle wisely, then don't go into fights with fellow men much stronger than them. They know when to retreat, they respect limits

A lot of women want to get away with every bad behaviour. They don't want consequences, respects no limits.

Very nauseating 🤢

[Instablog9ja @instablog9ja]

“Walk away, don’t fight back” — Lady shares her advice to men on physical provocation by women

[Gandalf @iamgandaalf]

@dammiedammie35 Even men choose their battle wisely, then don't go into fights with fellow men much stronger than them. They know when to retreat, they respect limits

A lot of women want to get away with every bad behaviour. They don't want consequences, respects no limits.

Very nauseating 🤢

[Gandalf @iamgandaalf]

Even men choose their battle wisely, then don't go into fights with fellow men much stronger than them. They know when to retreat, they respect limits

A lot of women want to get away with every bad behaviour. They don't want consequences, respects no limits.

Very nauseating 🤢

[Oyindamola🙄 @dammiedammie35]

“If a woman h!ts a man, the best thing to do is to walk away” — Lady insists

[Gandalf @iamgandaalf]

Just make sure to come to the relationship as a Virgin. It will worth the wait.

[Lady B - IYALODE OF X @mobola_ade]

I don’t subscribe to the idea that a woman should be discarded because she’s not ready to give her body during courtship or dating.
If someone is serious about me, waiting until the wedding night shouldn’t be a problem. If that doesn’t work for you, you’re free to move on please, no hard feelings.

[Gandalf @iamgandaalf]

still feel seen by her man for her support.

Even while doing all that for yourself, you have to make a conscious effort to acknowledge the need for a man.

Otherwise flourish in your masculine energy and buy a dog to love you that way, cos you'll find it hard to keep a man.

[Gandalf @iamgandaalf]

A woman's best shot will and always be under a man.

Again men do all these for millions of women and you all say it's "bare minimum". I can't say the same for men.

Yes a woman who does all these for herself will lose her feminine energy. Except she is conscious enough or in

[Instablog9ja @instablog9ja]

Do you agree with her take? 👀

[Gandalf @iamgandaalf]

So it is very okay for women to work, because by doing so they can support their partner. It doesn't matter the type of work, and it doesn't have to be a secular job.
You will agree with me that if she is under a man, she wouldn't have to do all that by herself, and she will

[Gandalf @iamgandaalf]

@ChiCious_1 Thank you 🙏

[Gandalf @iamgandaalf]

Thread 🧵.

While I agree that the quality of men now, are on a decline. For the most part this is because of the disruption in the dynamics of the family union. We have more feminine men than masculine men, Toxic masculinity and feminism which is a catalyst to that.
Contd....

[kingsley okonkwo @kingsleypst]

Ladies and gentlemen we have a crisis!

I'm very concerned about the quality of men out there these days…

I stand to be corrected but it seems the gap between men and women in terms of quality is widening, it’s getting harder to find solid men

[Gandalf @iamgandaalf]

@kingsleypst My response
https://t.co/tbzBEzT8uu

[Gandalf @iamgandaalf]

Thread 🧵.

While I agree that the quality of men now, are on a decline. For the most part this is because of the disruption in the dynamics of the family union. We have more feminine men than masculine men, Toxic masculinity and feminism which is a catalyst to that.
Contd....

[Gandalf @iamgandaalf]

This was my response and I still stand by it.
https://t.co/tbzBEzT8uu

[kingsley okonkwo @kingsleypst]

Ladies and gentlemen we have a crisis

I'm very concerned about the quality of men out there these days

I stand to be corrected but it seems the gap between men and women in terms of quality is widening , its getting harder to find solid men.

[Gandalf @iamgandaalf]

man is complete as listed below.

1. Provision (Physical, emotional, financial)
2. Protection (physical, emotional, financial)
3. Reliable, Stable/Dependable
4. Sacrifice/Selflessness (even to the point of death)
5. Visionary Headship intertwined with Discipline.

[Gandalf @iamgandaalf]

You don't ask women to define quality men. Most women don't know what a quality man looks like, most of them have been configured to perceive wealth as quality.

Quality men are defined by God himself who is the originator of marriage.

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[kingsley okonkwo @kingsleypst]

So I did a post on scarcity of quality men that got a lot of reactions but someone said we need to define what a quality man is .....and I think that makes sense

[Gandalf @iamgandaalf]

I will give you my opinion 

The quality of a man stems from Capacity.
And summed up in one big word
"LOVE" the perfect bond of union.

List below are all subset of "LOVE"
This is why a man comes with love, it is the full package 📦.
With love every other aspect of a quality

[Gandalf @iamgandaalf]

Agba, she just proves you right that single mothers are not worth the stress.
There is no way she wouldn't lump that responsibility on you sooner or later. Plus you have to deal with the baby daddy wahala.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

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[Gandalf @iamgandaalf]

@jon_d_doe Agba, she just proves you right that single mothers are not worth the stress.
There is no way she wouldn't lump that responsibility on you sooner or later. Plus you have to deal with the baby daddy wahala.

[Gandalf @iamgandaalf]

When there is a seller, there is always a buyer. Opportunity brought both together. No hard feelings

[Instablog9ja @instablog9ja]

Married Man or Willing Partner? Timeline buzzes as social media users debate
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