People will always defend their faves, e no matter if they’ve dragged someone before, they’ll stick with their own! The first mantra of a bbn fan is HYPOCRISY #bbnaija
Women please train your children to learn to speak up, especially your female child. I was the child who was always scared to speak up because I felt I would be blamed for whatever happened.
I remember a time I was freshly into the university and we were told that we have to pick courses to borrow from other departments. I finally picked a course in a department and the lecturer made it mandatory that we must never miss his class. I started going to school very early because I wanted to be at the front. At some point, this lecturer noticed me and always asked me to get him things from the student market.
One day, after class, he told me to help him get garri and groundnut from the student market and bring it to his office. His office was on the third floor, so I was already tired from climbing the stairs. As I got to his office, I knocked on the door and he opened it. Immediately I entered, he told me to drop the things I went to get and then locked the door behind me.
As soon as I dropped it, this man started groping me aggressively. I fought back with everything in me, with tears in my eyes. He groped me to the point where a strap of my bra snapped. I told him if he didn’t stop, I was going to scream. Then he said, “you don’t look like the type that speaks up.” I felt my heart drop and started shouting. He pushed me back and told me to leave his office.
I remember leaving his office and going home immediately because I couldn’t even be in the school environment anymore. As I was heading home crying, what he said kept playing in my head, about how I looked like someone who doesn’t speak up.
The next day, when I came to school, I dropped his course and took another course and made sure that I avoided him. Every time our paths crossed in the school environment, my hands would literally start shaking and I would find any way possible to leave. I never shared this with anyone, not even my friends. I finally felt okay when I heard that he relocated to the US.
That experience stayed with me. And it’s exactly why I’m saying this: teach your children to use their voice. Let them know they will be believed. Let them know they won’t be blamed. Let them know they are allowed to say no, to shout, to walk away, to report, to speak.
Because silence is not safety. And predators count on it.
Pets on furniture. You people are not wiping their feet EVERY TIME they come in from outside. You are not wiping their behinds EVERY TIME they poop or pee.
That is all over your bed, couch, rug, etc and it's disgusting.
The first thing I saw on TikTok this morning honestly got me emotional🥹.
It was this girl talking about how she had hit a rough patch in her life, nothing was really stable, and she just needed a reset. So she moved in with her friend for about six months, just to get herself back on track. Her friend told her the rent was $350 a month… but she decided to pay $400 anyway, just to be safe and not feel like a burden.
For six months straight, she stayed consistent. Every single month, she paid that money, thinking she was just doing the responsible thing while trying to rebuild her life.
Then when it was finally time for her to move out and start fresh…
If you have male children, you have a SACRED task of ensuring your son not only stands solid in character, but that he is also wise and courageous to stand up to his fellow men when they say and do evil to women.
The best way you can ever repay your parents is by giving them nothing to worry about when it comes to you. You’re not on drugs, you’re doing the right things, you’re living a healthy lifestyle, you’re taking care of your responsibilities. That’s the best thing you can do ever do for your parents.
@T2mobile_ng Can you please let us Port as your network as not been active in forever, recharging and not getting the airtime or data, can't receive otp, can do nothing haba! I have done the network thing, I only got network for calls but it didn't solve this issued I listed