I have learned to openly air my opinions on this app without fear as long as it is sensible.
The things you are actually scared to say or feel it might come off as being offensive, somebody else will say something worse.
Give every thought a second thought so as to avoid saying stupid things but don’t be afraid to air that sensible thought.
AI is making the world dumber.
We’re getting so used to having everything explained, written, solved, and figured out for us that we’re slowly forgetting how to think for ourselves. The scary part is, we might not even notice it until we can’t function without it.
Infidelity.
Theft in any form, especially inflating fees.
Any form of violence.
Intentionally lying or hiding anything about their past from me to con me into marriage.
Prioritizing any other man above me, especially pastors.
Disrespecting my mum or siblings.
Please I want to ask a question, if you fall out with someone and you see them post on their WhatsApp status that they lost their son, are you going to reply to it?
A person can do something that hu*rts your feelings without intending to hurt you. A person can d! sappoint you while still caring about you. A person can forget something important to you without forgetting your value. A person can be struggling silently while you are wondering why they aren't showing up the way you expected. This is why we should separate what happened from what we believe it means. What happened: They didn't reply. What we assumed: They don't respect me.
You flashed me with your whatsapp line, so i called you back with same line and you refused to pick because it’s not your call line.
Mehn people are weird fr.
A 37 years old married woman is currently 6 weeks pregnant.
She has been married for more than 7 years without any child (I don't want to state the exact number of years).
She and her husband have both subjected themselves to several tests and they're fine.
They have both been very transparent with their individual results and have been "waiting on the lord" all these years.
However, now she's pregnant.
And the pregnancy is not for her husband but for one of her exes who is also married with his own kids.
The ex doesn't know that she is pregnant and her husband doesn't know that she's pregnant.
She desperately wants to become a mother and is ruling out abortion.
Her problem is how to break the news to her husband and she's hoping that the child will at least look more like her than her ex, so that there won't be any suspicions.
After reading, I had to swallow spit because this one is not what I would usually give any advise on.
She's 37 and needs a child. And she's banking on the fact that since her husband is medically fine, he will be happy that "God has finally answered their prayers".
And she's willing to take the secret to her grave. No one else knows this secret except me, her, God and devil.
AJD.