This sentiment sucks. It already feels so embarrassing to be inexperienced as a grown adult, and it is so discouraging to hear people act like weโve already missed the opportunity for queer intimacy with experienced partners.
i think my vocabulary expands at the extremes of my emotions. when i am unbearably sad or hopelessly in love words flow out of me in ways that even surprise me. its like i can only articulate myself when i feel too much, otherwise i am just repeating the same words over and over
I think people underestimate how much of a luxury it is to genuinely like your normal day. Not the holiday. Not the birthday. No the reservation. Literally Mondays or Wednesdays.