Why do men cheat?
Most women sum it up simply: “Men cheat because they always want more.” But in most cases, cheating is already a symptom that the relationship has broken down.
A happy man rarely goes looking for something on the side. Cheating doesn’t start with sex, it starts with emotional distance. When at home there’s no closeness, no respect, no feeling that you’re accepted.
@paultungwarara@matinyarare Is this money coming from your personal pockets? If yes why would you personally pay for the country's debts. We are not fools... Stop posting this sh*t on public spaces... Mungabve matya munhu zvekusvika pakumupa bribe pamberi penyika yese??? Kurai
@ParliamentZim Why are you allowing members to be bought under your watch? After debating in your house people are going straight to collect cars, do you think that it's acceptable in a normal country, or we are saying Zimbabwe is no longer one of those.
@matinyarare Don't let me think that you are too stupid that its a bribe... Inga the so called "gift" yakauya nemaconditions wani, so that you deescalate the attacks against the President
Boundaries aren’t walls. They’re a love manual.
Too many people think “personal boundaries” means shutting the world out. Building walls. Being cold.
It’s not that.
Boundaries are the opposite of walls.
Walls keep people out.
Boundaries teach people how to stay.
They’re a clear, kind instruction:
“This is how you love me right. This is how you keep me safe. This is how we build something real.”
They’re not tests. They’re not threats.
They’re directions. Like a map for your heart.
So stop being afraid to say them out loud.
“Don’t call me names when you’re angry.”
“I need time to think before I decide.”
“I don’t do last-minute plans.”
Say it. Clearly. Kindly. Without apology.
Because here’s the truth:
A man who’s not for you will hear boundaries and run.
A man who is for you will hear boundaries and thank you.
You just gave him the cheat code to love you well.
So stop hiding your rules.
Speak them. Own them.
The right person won’t see them as “too much.”
He’ll see them as the beginning of something warm, safe, and lasting.
Boundaries aren’t rejection. They’re invitation.
#familytherapy
#love
Pandaikura kumusha ndizvo zvandaiita pakubata mbeva dzangu... Ndaizorera dovi panzungu, ndoisa pachikirimbani... Ndaisapotsa... Kana @matinyarare achiziva kuti haasi mbeva ngaaende anotora mota neMonday🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣... Haana kuzogumira pakutuka Tagwirei chete, he went all the way kusvika kunaPresident