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just existing rn … twitter is my 📝

[waliu @idek_tb]

I’m realizing my lack of socializing durin my formative years along with my introversion has single-handedly destroyed my ability to rizz anyone up, leaving me embarrassed by the lack of charm I’m exuding as i explore dating, so i need to take a dating for introverts master class

[d @idek_tbh4]

@idek_tb There’s someone out there that will be effortlessly charmed by you

[waliu @idek_tb]

Someone needs to hear this: having people walk on egg shells because of your anger is a form of emotional abuse.

[d @idek_tbh4]

@idek_tb Yes, it creates a poisonous environment in which others feel constantly anxious and controlled, which is healthy for nobody.

[d @idek_tbh4]

@idek_tb If you can’t have fun with your partner, you’re in the wrong relationship for sure.

[waliu @idek_tb]

just because you were triggered again, doesn’t mean you haven’t healed some. repairing wounds takes time. just because you relapsed, doesn’t mean you haven’t made progress. don’t discount your hardwork. don’t beat yourself up for being human.

[d @idek_tbh4]

@idek_tb Remember, setbacks don't erase the progress you've made. Healing is a journey with ups and downs and your resilience shines through. Keep moving forward, one step at a time.

[Steph @StephHay6]

Be extremely good at something. Art. Music. Writing. Cooking. Fashion. Just be good at something, my friend. I promise you no one can take this from you. In this dark place, it'll be your light.

[waliu @idek_tb]

being comfortable within your own authenticity allows you to be okay with people having the wrong idea about you

[d @idek_tbh4]

@idek_tb Let them think whatever they want. Those that have importance in your life will see you clearly without your extra effort.

[waliu @idek_tb]

You gotta be patient dating someone who has never been loved properly

[d @idek_tbh4]

@idek_tb And after a while, it backfires to you who’s been patient all along….classic

[waliu @idek_tb]

I had to remind myself to stop living so far ahead in the future and simply let life happen to me raw, organic, and unprocessed. Too much overthinking, and i’ll lose the very essence that makes life worth living and memories worth keeping.

[d @idek_tbh4]

@idek_tb Yeah, living in the moment is what I'm trying to do recently

[waliu @idek_tb]

If you are emotionally more sensitive than others, please do yourself a favor and date people who won’t judge you for experiencing emotions to the degree that you do. If your trauma has shaped you to possess great depths then date people who aren’t afraid to reach them.

[d @idek_tbh4]

@idek_tb Absolutely! At that point you’re just using them.

[d @idek_tbh4]

@idek_tb Healthy relationships are not found, they’re worked on and created

[waliu @idek_tb]

You get in a relationship to LEARN how to love each other, you're not suppose to automatically know. People assume this and are too quick to break up

[d @idek_tbh4]

@idek_tb Cheating is a choice, not a reaction. It's about the person’s character, not your actions.

[waliu @idek_tb]

People cheat because they're cheaters... Not because you can't cook, or you didn't give enough sex, or you got into an argument... There's nothing someone can do differently to not get cheated on except find someone who isn't interested in cheating.