I pray you marry a person that will listen to your worries with an attentive ear. a spouse that will take your tears seriously. a spouse that won't be annoyed when you falter. a spouse that will make every effort to see you smile. a spouse that will protect your precious heart.
i’ve been thinking about how often we confuse chemistry for compatibility. they might make you laugh & entertain you through good conversation but do they make you feel seen, heard & appreciated? are you both on the same page when it comes to communication or emotional maturity?
"We wear the mask that grins and lies,
It hides our cheeks and shades our eyes"
And yet there are few who can go behind the lies... giving us the comfort that we, oh, so desire!
"Anyone who can cause such unhappiness to someone else, someone he professes to love, and on purpose, too, is low, very low!"
Gosh...a bitter reality check for myself!
We've all been hurt & learnt painful lessons. But each time, we pick ourselves up & move on with quiet confidence. This is what beautiful patience is about. It doesn’t complain, knowing the Almighty’s in full control of everything. Relief will come soon.
کیسی کیسی باتیں کرتے تھے قائد اعظم بھی 😢
"The armed forces are the servants of the people. You do not make national policy; it is we, the civilians, who decide these issues and it is your duty to carry out these tasks with which you are entrusted.” Army Staff College, 14-06-48.