“Bite The Bullet” an album by @KKeed_ is out now. First of all,Keed, congratulations! & thank you for reaching out and making me a part of this monumental experience.
Just Imagine a woman with bilateral cuts on both sides after childbirth.
She lay under the needle for over 40 minutes, getting stitched up because both sides had to be repaired.
I was there the entire time.
Blood everywhere. Pain everywhere. Tears everywhere.
She held my hands so tight from the pain that I completely lost feeling in my fingers.
And then some f$$lish man will still open his mouth to ask: “What do women even bring to the table?”
OR say nonsense like: “It’s not manly for a man to help his wife with chores meant for women.”
After watching a woman tear her body open to bring life; after seeing pain you can’t Google, read, or imagine….any man who still thinks love, care, and partnership reduce his masculinity is a certified Ode!
If this experience doesn’t humble you as a man, NOTHING EVER WILL (not even the death of a loved one).
your SPOUSE is the one who’ll sit beside you when your PARENTS DIE. who’ll hold your hand through CHILDBIRTH. who might have to BATHE YOU if you’re ever too sick to stand. this isn’t just about BUTTERFLIES or DATE NIGHTS. it’s about choosing someone who SHOWS UP... in GRIEF, in MESS, in UNCERTAINTY. so no, LOVE ALONE isn’t enough. COMMITMENT, MATURITY, and the ability to ENDURE life’s ugly parts... that’s what sustains a MARRIAGE. because when life gets PAINFULLY REAL, ROMANCE won’t carry you... CHARACTER will. and the truth is, FOREVER is only possible with someone who knows how to STAY when it’s HARD TO LOVE
never sleep with a married woman
never sleep with your coworkers
never sleep with your friend's ex
never sleep with a single mum.
never sleep with your brother's girlfriend
never sleep with a woman older than you.
never sleep with a woman you don't trust.