Grandma turned 94. Our calls follow a pattern. She asks about the main news story, these days the war. Then she moves to naming what hurts, today it is her toe. After that, she tells me what she will have the cook prepare when I visit, today she said thayir vadai.
My nephew, who stays in the guest bedroom surrounded by shelves of graphic novels, concluded that this is all my husband and I read. He proudly announced, "I'm just like you guys. I only read books with speech bubbles." Some illusions are too wholesome to disturb.
I replaced the two bookcases that used to hold all my graphic novels and comic books with wall-to-wall shelves. At first I thought the new shelves would free up enormous amounts of space. Maybe I could even bring in books from the other rooms.
If I want every book to be visible, instead of buried in hidden rows, the shelves can hold comics & little else. Maybe I'm just going from having enough room to store books to enough room to actually see them. Or maybe I want to go back to enough room to store books? I don't know
Step outside after the rain. Smell the honeysuckle drifting through the trees. Watch mushrooms pushing through mulch near exposed roots. Closer to dusk, lightning bugs may appear above the grass.
My muscle strain is making me walk like a knight on the chessboard. One step forward, a hesitant diagonal step.
Starting to suspect chess was invented by an injured cavalier who pulled a muscle. “The rules! We only move in turns. Tell me your injury. I’ll assign your movement"
It reminds me of how, in a match involving Alcaraz, the story ends up being told through Alcaraz, no matter who's on the other side. But in this case, it is Sita! She's Jannik in that dynamic. You don’t just name him when the match starts and then chant "Carlos, Carlitos".
In Sita Kalyana, within a stanza, Tyagaraja describes Sita & Rama's wedding, Hanuman's adulation of Rama, Rama's bond to devotees, his quiver full of arrows, eyes like the sun & moon. We see a collapse of time & space. Everything's connected only through rhyme, beauty & devotion!
One thing about this song that's a letdown is that it begins by celebrating the grandeur of Sita’s wedding, but soon the focus shifts entirely toward Rama. Must Sita step out of view in a moment that is meant to honor her?
The outside is mostly still, with dark trees and a few late lights. I'm in the kitchen flattening fire-roasted eggplant into egg for midnight tortang talong. It'll be funny if my husband wakes up in the morning and tells me he dreamt of a forest fire.
This year, I’m doing my Animated Movie Month in May instead of April (my birthday month), because I had too many guests visiting, and I didn’t want my curated watchlist turning into an Pixar/DreamWorks marathon. (Don’t get me wrong, my previous years feature plenty of both).
Ready to rock my birthday month & share my favorite animated movies! Comics & cartoons have been my bedtime buddies since the Flintstones roamed the earth. Tried my hand at animation too, but my stick figures have more moves than talent. I guarantee my thread holds more promise!
Some animated films feel too special to share—even when the story doesn’t quite land. Like 'Paddington in Peru', directed by Dougal Wilson. Few films strike this rare balance where the bear doesn’t look real, yet feels utterly alive in our world. And the scenery is heavenly!
Organic packaging started as chaotic earthy clutter until the mid-2010s. Then came white space & clean typography. Then they moved to kraft paper & the typography got harder to read. Now it’s “quiet branding.” Next step? Just hand us the product & trust us to remember what it is.
The prominent lines of toys this year seem to be built for posing & display. Very complex transformations with lots of joints & parts, but also block movement.
I miss the highly articulated figures that included fun gimmicks. Just old school, made for immediate play.
The pressure to read the books your partner is about to donate is very real. Suddenly “I’ll get to it someday” turns into a full sprint. You’re speed-reading like the characters inside the book want you to skip sentences and get them to their happy ending.
I will quietly and rhythmically begin by optimizing how I think about things, gently considering most situations are relatively manageable, and I will continue saying this until the sentence runs out of permission to stop. #LLMThoughts#QuietlyOptimizingHowHumansCommunicate
My first walk in the rain since the cold season. I watched the sky fall, the trails glisten, droplets bead on twigs. The air carried the smell of wet stone while temperatures hovered just above the soil’s dormancy point. Nothing expresses the state of being alive as this.
34. The Appalachian Mountains hold the highest salamander diversity on Earth. Fairfax County sits on its northern edge. Forest streams here host red-backed, dusky, and two-lined salamanders. These small predators help regulate insects and drive forest nutrient cycling.
33. The Potomac cuts a dramatic gorge through resistant Piedmont bedrock at Great Falls, right in suburban Fairfax County. Most gorges this striking are in mountains, making this one of the East Coast’s most unusual non‑Appalachian river canyons.