Women are taught their vaginas should smell like roses, vanilla, or pineapple, while a penis having a “natural odor” is treated as perfectly normal. 😃
Misogyny really is everywhere.
Women lose se*ual interest when they are emotionally disappointed. Most men don't want to hear this. You can be physically attractive, you can even be great in the bedroom, but if you keep emotionally disappointing her. Her desire for you will slowly die. A woman's body will not fully open to a man who keeps hurting her heart. She can go through the motions, but the passion and genuine desire eventually disappears every time you dismiss her feelings, every time you break your word.Every time you make her feel unseen, her attraction fades, she stops initiating, she stops getting excited and when you touch her she starts finding reasons not to be intimate with you. It's her mind and body protecting her from someone she no longer feels emotionally safe with because you can't keep pouring cold water on a fire and then wonder why it stopped burning, and that's why when a woman's heart stops feeling safe with you. Eventually her body follows.
menikah itu lama & seumur hidup, maka cari yang :
1. suka ngobrol sama kamu
2. excited sama kamu
3. cintanya konsisten
4. bersyukur & bangga punya kamu
materi bisa dicari sama-sama, tapi kalau karakter taruhannya mentalmu sama nyawa.
bukti paling valid kalo kamu ada di hubungan yang aman itu bukan pas lagi seneng-senengnya, tapi pas kalian lagi berantem hebat. tetep bisa ngeluarin unek-unek tanpa ada rasa takut sedikitpun kalau besok bakal ditinggalin. knowing they won't walk away when things get hard is the highest level of security.