i once realized that no one has ever said to me “let’s work through this, i can’t lose you.” every time things got difficult, people just walked away. experiences like that quietly shape how you see relationships.
I don’t want a soft life because I’m lazy ! I want a soft life because I’ve spent most of my life in survival mode ! My nervous system has been in fight or flight since childhood & now I’m choosing peace, softness & stability !
Maybe it’s just me… but when someone does something for me, I immediately start thinking of what I could do to thank them in return ! I'm so appreciative of consideration & acts of service !