Ipah

kepala tidur 😴

[Ipah @iffahkarim]

Daily conversations with Sufi

*for my memories bcos i forget easily these days 😂

[Warren Sharp @SharpFootball]

“dinosaur documentary narrated by Morgan Freeman…
…produced by Steven Spielberg”

you had me at hello

[positivity moon @arrtnem]

You don’t really understand this until you’ve had a few almosts

A few dates where the conversation was fine, the food was decent, they laughed at the right moments, you nodded, you smiled, you did all the human things, and then you went home and felt nothing. Not heartbreak. Not excitement. Just this blank, polite calm like you finished a meeting. You lay in bed at 00:26 scrolling for a little dopamine hit because the whole night didn’t land anywhere in your body

Or you meet someone who is objectively great on paper and your brain keeps trying to force it. They’re kind. They show up. They text back. They’re stable Your friends approve. And still, when you’re alone with them, something in you stays locked. You can’t explain it without sounding insane. “They’re perfect, I just… don’t feel it.” So you keep going for a while because you want to be normal and grateful and adult. Then one day you realize you’ve been living on a mild sedation. Not unhappy, not alive.

That’s when the math hits you.

Real connection is not common.
not even close

We talk about it like it should be easy because there are billions of people and apps and “put yourself out there” and a culture that makes love sound like a buffet. Pick someone. Swipe. Upgrade. Repeat. But genuine click is not about access. It’s about alignment. And alignment is rare in a way people don’t want to admit because it makes the world feel colder.

Think about what has to line up for it to happen

Two nervous systems that don’t trigger each other into shutdown.
Two senses of humor that match.
Two levels of intensity that don’t leave one person feeling chased and the other feeling abandoned.
Two life rhythms that can actually share air.
Two people who find each other at the same time in their lives, not one ready and the other half asleep.
Two sets of wounds that don’t hook into each other like velcro.
Two people whose idea of “home” is compatible.

That’s before you even get to attraction. Before you get to values. Before you get to sex. Before you get to the boring reality of laundry and bills and sickness and family and the way people change.

then add the fact that we are all walking around with invisible histories. Old loves. Old betrayals. Childhood stuff. Self-protection habits we pretend are personality traits. Half the time you’re not even meeting the person. You’re meeting the version of them they think will be safe to show.

when you genuinely click with someone, it feels like a miracle not because you’re dramatic, but because your body knows the odds.

It knows how many conversations you’ve had where you were translating yourself.
How many times you laughed a second late.
How many times you edited your excitement so you wouldn’t seem like too much.
How many times you didn’t say what you meant because you didn’t trust the room to hold it.

Then one day you say something stupidly specific, like a childhood memory nobody else cares about, and they don’t just listen - they light up. They understand the joke inside it. They catch the tone behind the words. They respond like they’ve been waiting for that exact frequency.

That moment is fragile in a way people don’t respect.

Because it’s not just “we get along.” It’s “my nervous system recognizes yours.”

And you can lose it so easily. Not always through some dramatic betrayal. Sometimes just through timing. Distance. Life getting heavy. People getting scared. Someone’s depression turning them into fog. Someone’s ambition turning them into absence. One bad season where you stop choosing each other and start surviving side by side. It doesn’t take a villain. It just takes neglect, which is so much more common.

That’s why connection is beautiful. Not because it’s poetic.

Because THIS improbable

[☔ @Whotfismick]

When the washer and dryer did their job and now it's time to do yours

[Ipah @iffahkarim]

Level 4, KPJ Pahang every week just to stay sane 🤘🏼

[Awanis @ftnawanis]

FINALLY GOT TO FIND OUT THE SCIENTIFIC REASON BEHIND MALAY GRANDMOTHERS PUTTING WET TISSUE ON THE BABIES FOREHEAD TO STOP HICCUPS AND IT WORKS AND THIS IS THE EXPLANATION I NEEDED!!!

MERCI BEAUCOUP 😭

[s. @shrupidity]

they don't have chemistry.

[Ghee Buttersnaps @hidden_bruh]

A twitter shit poster becoming mayor. Now I understand what it means to feel represented

[FilmyKitty is SRK’s pet cat 🐾 @FilmyKitty]

K3G gets derided because of its tone, but it is actually a rare perfect movie. It achieves exactly what it sets out to be- a well made mega family drama with classic Hindi film elements. People need to stop confusing their personal liking with quality.

[Sahil @sahilusion]

The sexiest non sex scene to ever exist in the history of Cinema.

[Divi 🐬 @Chuprehbkl]

Imagine going back to Ajay Devgan after doing this scene with srk 😭🙏

[meow @meowdarchodddd]

it’s insane how you dont this see “ranveer” in any of these pics, just bittoo, murad, bajirao, varun and every other character

[😵‍💫🍬 @ordinarynojaem]

Actor Kim Kwangkyu mentioning Lim YoonA during #BonAppetitYourMajesty’s filming

“It was my first time working with actress YoonA. Even though we started filming at 6 a.m., the lead had been on set three hours earlier (to prepare). Usually, people take short breaks to maintain their condition, but she didn’t give herself any downtime. Honestly, when it comes to action scenes, I usually prefer to use a stunt double. But YoonA insisted on doing everything herself, the cooking, even the back shots, she did it all. So, I told her ‘You’re going to collapse if you keep going like that!’ and she might’ve almost had it at the very end. That’s when I thought, ‘Ah, this is why she’s successful’. That’s when I became a fan.”

[Daniél @danielhvqeem]

Adele next to a Petronas logo is the closest she will ever get to Malaysia

[Shreemi Verma @shreemiverma19]

I know who was behind it

[𝑐𝑙𝑜𝑣𝑒𝑟 ⋆˚𝜗𝜚˚⋆ @starbennettt]

this is who hollywood should be slutting out instead of that one white nigga

[Muhammad Fahmi @fahmirusliMFR]

Riak yang dicela itu hanya berlaku dalam hal ibadah sahaja. Adapun seseorang yang memperlihatkan sesuatu dalam urusan dunia kepada orang lain, ini tidak termasuk dalam kategori riak yang tercela.

Imām Al-Ghazāli رحمه الله (w. 505 h.) berkata :

تحسين الثوب الذي يلبسه الإنسان عند الخروج إلى الناس مراءاة وهو ليس بحرام لأنه ليس رياء بالعبادة بل بالدنيا وقس على هذا كل ما تجمل للناس وتزين لهم

Terjemahan : Memakai pakaian yang cantik ketika seseorang itu keluar bertemu dengan orang ramai kerana ingin menunjuk-nunjuk, ia tidaklah haram kerana ia bukan riak dalam ibadah, akan tetapi dalam urusan dunia. Dan kiaskanlah hal ini ke atas setiap perkara yang seseorang berhias dan memperindah diri kepada orang ramai.

Rujuk Ihyā’ ‘Ulūm Al-Dīn, Al-Ghazāli (3/300)

Sebagai contoh : Seseorang yang menunjukkan kereta baharunya kepada kawan-kawan. Ini tidak dikira riak yang tercela.

Bahkan sebenarnya ia lebih dekat kepada menzahirkan syukur atas nikmat yang diperoleh. Sebagaimana firman Allah SWT :

وأما بنعمة ربك فحدث

Terjemahan : Adapun nikmat Tuhan kamu (terhadapmu) hendaklah kamu ceritakan.

Surah Al-Duha (11)

Begitu juga sabda Rasulullah SAW :

إنَّ اللهَ يحِبُّ أنْ يَرَى أثَرَ نِعْمتِه على عبْدِه

Terjemahan : Sesungguhnya Allah SWT suka untuk melihat kesan nikmat-Nya ke atas hamba-Nya.

Riwayat Al-Tirmizi (2819)

Dari sudut Allah SWT suka untuk seseorang hamba itu menzahirkan kurniaan Allah SWT ke atas dirinya seperti harta, kuasa, dan yang seumpamanya yang telah direzekikan kepadanya.

Meskipun begitu, sekiranya seseorang menzahirkan nikmat dan kesenangannya dengan tujuan untuk memperlekeh (ihtiqār), menghina, atau menyakiti orang lain, maka ketika ini barulah ia dilarang di sisi syarak.

Imām Al-Ghazāli turut menjelaskan isu riak dalam bentuk yang mudah difahami dengan katanya :

Had riak adalah : Berkehendak kepada makhluk dengan melakukan ketaatan/ibadah kepada Allah SWT.

Orang yang riak (المرائي) : Orang yang melakukan ibadah.

Orang yang diperlihatkan ibadah kepadanya (المراءَى) : Orang ramai yang pandangan mereka dikehendaki supaya dia mendapat tempat dalam hati mereka.

Sesuatu yang diperlihatkan (المراءى به) : Perbuatan-perbuatan yang pelaku riak bertujuan untuk menzahirkannya kepada orang ramai.

Rujuk Ihyā’ ‘Ulūm Al-Dīn, Al-Ghazāli (3/297)

✍🏻 Muhammad Fahmi Rusli

[Eden Dranger @Eden_Eats]

I promise you, any concern or question you may have is easily CORRECTLY answered on Reddit from a post from like 2018.

[Adrian Zahir⚡ @ForwardsMarch]

IMAGINE SENDING 20 WARSHIPS TO INTERCEPT BOATS CARRYING MILK POWDER AND BABY FORMULA FOR STARVING CHILDREN. THIS IS THE GREATEST EVIL EXISTING IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW!!!!!

[Benjamin Rubinstein @BenFRubinstein]

This is a threat

[Ipah @iffahkarim]

The happy ending continues 😍 Rahul must be so happy rn #kkkg

[Daughter of SRKajol @OfSrkajol]

Literally the best thing I've seen since morning 😚🫶 only Kajol can make people do things

#JayaBachchan #Kajol