unlearn shame. all forms of shame: unemployment, illness, vulnerability, longing, desire, errors, failures. you do not need to feel ashamed of what you are experiencing or living. freedom and shame cannot coexist.
That's how you know the "disrespect" narrative is a fallacy. If people don't like you, everything you do is wrong. If they do, they'll always find a reason it's no big deal. #LoveIslandUSA
@meloncrab completely other way around. you can be the cleanest person on earth but living in an apartment will make you see roaches. whereas you have to be leaving lots of food and dirty plates out to attract a whole line of ants
People don’t understand the impact of a good environment. It can change you in the most profound ways mentally and emotionally. The spaces and people you’re around shape your mindset more than you realize. When your environment is healthy, you respond better to everything.
I’m in love with this sentence:
“The degree to which a person can grow is directly proportional to the amount of truth he can accept about himself without running away.”
i show up to everything early af now. you don't wait as long. you up anyway. and you don't have to deal with the riffraff. if you want shit done and time in the day, you get shit done asap.