1. I will not apologise to you just because I want peace to reign when you are the one who wronged me. I’d rather lose the relationship. If you cannot hold yourself accountable, you are not the person for me.
2. I do not tolerate disrespect. Not even as a joke. Especially not as a joke.
3. If you have a problem with cooking for your partner, I’m not the person for you.
4. You don’t ever have to worry about cooking because it’s one of the things I genuinely enjoy doing. However, this doesn’t negate what I said in number three.
5. Unless you are deep into fitness like me and are posting your gains, you cannot be posting your bum on social media. I’m not a “mature” boyfriend.
6. My obligation is to treat you right and love you softly, genuinely, and intentionally. But if you cannot reciprocate that energy, I’ll leave you.
7. You cannot have a male bestie under my regime.
8. Dates are important to me. I will initiate, plan, and pay for most of them, but you must also initiate, plan, and pay for some dates. I’m a baby boy too.
9. If I tell you that something you did hurt me, don’t tell me it’s not that deep. I will not let you gaslight or manipulate me into questioning my feelings. Don’t dismiss my feelings, ever.
10. Cheating is a deal-breaker. I will not forgive you for it.
11. Access to phones is important to me. This doesn’t mean I’m interested in going through your phone, but if you suddenly start guarding it around me, I’ll assume you’re hiding something.
12. I don’t want to hear about what your ex did for you. If you keep bringing him or your exes up unnecessarily, I will leave you.
13. I like sex, and I’m considerate. I also understand that I don’t own your body. However, if my sexual needs are consistently neglected, I’ll leave you.
14. Even when you are angry, talk to me softly. We can disagree without being cruel to each other. Don’t raise your voice at me, talk to me like a decent adult.
15. If you need a break from the relationship, please don’t come back.
16. Don’t use a breakup as a threat, a weapon, or a joke whenever we have a minor misunderstanding. If you tell me you want to end the relationship, I will respect your decision, and there will be no coming back from it.
This is how history gets incrementally rewritten because nobody pushes back on narratives like this.
In reality, no generation in Nigeria ever actually "listened" to Fela. At NO point was he ever embraced by Nigeria's western-educated classes. He was always an outsider and a rebel that they treated with suspicion or outright hostility. Even the wealthy or educated who liked him had to literally hide to do so. His music was (and to the best of my knowledge still is!) banned from radio nationwide, and it eventually got to the point where he made less money in Nigeria - his primary audience - than outside it.
I grew up on a street where a few houses away was Air Vice Marshall Funsho Martins, across the street was Governor Ita Ikpeme, around the corner was Fidelity Bank MD Reginald Ihejiahi, and so on. These were the people I would often overhear having conversations with my dad, and to them, Fela was an "amugbo boy" (weed smoking loser) and community penis who used the guise of African pride to cover for his lack of personal discipline. They had no respect for what he stood for, and I personally was not allowed to listen to Fela's music while I lived under my parents' roof.
Fela was never loved by the people who were politically aware or active in Nigeria. The only people who wholeheartedly embraced Fela were the poorest and most powerless. And even at that, they lacked the education to fully understand his message beyond simple complaint and criticism of the Nigerian government. All his words about colonialism and imperialism flew completely over their heads. It was like explaining the International Space Station to someone who has never seen an internal combustion engine before.
I hate the narrative that Nigeria ever truly embraced Fela or his message because that is a laundering device for Nigerians to avoid asking themselves what on earth was so important about that message that a military government invaded his house, raped his wives and killed his mom, while the global "human rights" yappers provided cover for that government and never sanctioned them for it.
Saying that there was a generation that "listened to Fela" is an easy and disingenuous way of dismissing Fela's work and refusing to examine what made it so important that we're still talking about him nearly 3 decades after he died.
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Am I the only one who got a weird feeling regarding the GRAM Wallet, Telegram & Durov moves?
1) Telegram announced their very own GRAM wallet (coming out for everyone in the next few weeks)
2) Tonkeeper & StonFi going multi-chain
3) Wallet in Telegram loosing its blue check mark
To me it seems like Pavel is taking the control away, but to be honest, I am confused.
Also the move with .gram domains… I didn’t understand why .ton needs new competition.
Besides than, Telegram intern seems to be more keen to play video games instead of doing anything for the culture in the ecosystem at all.
What’s going on?
Who’s going to comment on all this?!
Are these the next MTONGA roadmap steps?!
All this is happening while Russia has labeled Pavel as a terrorist, and banned Telegram on its territory.
And well, activity & social media sphere seems empty (to say the least…)
Feels weird to me.
I now consider it foolishness to have debates with women.
The reasons are endless, but I'll give a few.
It is impossible for a woman to analyse issues without inserting herself, even when the topic of debate has nothing to do with her and her reality.
As long as women prioritise how a subject makes them feel as opposed to what the realities on the subject are, they are unfit for debates.
Women mostly hate truth, bcos of that they do not self criticise.
They reject criticism bcos to them it's an attack on their entire personality.
That's why in any debate they present themselves as the rare exception, even when every evidence points to the contrary.
Women do not understand the concept of exceptions not negating the rule, they will never understand that cos it goes against their ideology of prioritising feelings.
And anyone who doesn't understand that exceptions don't negate the rule is unfit for debates.
Women are mostly the group of ppl that reject logical and imperical facts and evidence simply bcos it doesn't sit well with their feelings.
Nobody who moves like that is fit to engage in debates.
Lastly for now, women have an inability to recognise superior argument.
This is bcos in their mind, conceding to a superior argument means they're accepting to a foul judgement of their character and personality, even when the conversation has nothing to do with them personally.
No body who prioritise logic and fact will engage anyone that largely thinks like this.
And that is exactly how most women are.
Dear single ladies,
One of the fastest ways to destroy a good relationship is to confuse courtship with responsibility.
A man who is dating you is not yet your husband. If he gives you money, buys you gifts, or supports you, receive it with gratitude not entitlement.
In the traditional understanding of marriage, the transfer of responsibility happens at marriage, not at "Will you be my girlfriend?" Dating is a season of learning each other, not a season of demanding husband-level responsibilities.
Please don't pressure a good man to finance a lifestyle you cannot finance yourself. There is nothing wrong with wanting the latest iPhone, designer bags, luxury vacations, or a soft life. The question is: Can you also work towards them?
Contentment is not the absence of ambition. It is refusing to make another person's pocket responsible for your identity.
Build your capacity. Earn your own money. Then appreciate every act of kindness without treating it as an obligation.
The right husband should become your partner in building a life not your shortcut to a lifestyle you cannot afford.
Contentment will not reduce your value.
It will help you recognize value.
If you've found a token on CT, you're too late, you're the last link in the chain
- TG developer groups
- Insiders
- Alpha Callers/KOLs
- Alpha groups
- Discord Groups
- CT
Once you've seen it here, realize all these groups have already bought
FEMINISM CAN ONLY EXIST INSIDE PATRIARCHY. IT COULD NEVER SURVIVE OUTSIDE IT.
Feminism doesn’t fight patriarchy. It needs patriarchy to justify its existence.
Feminism needs:
The police force built by men to protect her right to protest
The laws written by men to give her equal rights
The military of men to keep her country safe so she can complain about men
The electricity, roads, infrastructure, technology invented by men to give her a platform to say men are useless
The food supply chain built by men working dangerous jobs to keep her fed while she says she doesn't need men
Outside of patriarchy? In the real state of nature?
No police. No laws. No rights. No grocery store. No AC. No internet.
Just raw survival. Brute strength. Violence. Starvation.
In that world, feminism dies in 24 hours. Because in that world, a woman with a gender studies degree cannot compete with a man with an axe. She NEEDS the patriarchal structure to survive.
Feminism is a luxury belief that only exists when men have already made life so safe and comfortable that women can afford to pretend men aren't necessary.
You will never see feminism in a war zone. In a famine. In a collapsing country. In a village with no running water.
You only see it in first-world countries, in safe cities, where men have built everything so well that women forgot who built it.
That's why feminism can only exist INSIDE patriarchy. It could never survive OUTSIDE it.
Securing the backup seed phrase is hard.
Can't have someone else read it and say, "oh, that's a nice seed phrase".
Can't have it destroyed by fire, flood, etc.
Can't have a hacker gain access to it.
And most importantly, can't lose it yourself.
The fastest way to detect manipulation is to watch for people who push urgency without giving you time to think, so build a rule where you never agree to important decisions in the same moment they are presented, because time pressure is often used to bypass your judgment.
Never wife a woman who does not know how to be bored. If she constantly needs attention, excitement, or validation, peace at home will feel unbearable and commitment will feel like a cage. A strong relationship is built in quiet moments, not constant stimulation.
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Nothing at a “rocket science” level
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Women love to tweet “I’m not in the mood” like it’s harmless…
Than they pass blame on to men
but that’s how it starts…
A week becomes a month.
A month becomes a year.
Then she wonders why the marriage falls apart.
What most women don’t understand is this:
Sex is how a man bonds with his wife.
It’s the glue that keeps the relationship together
It’s not just pleasure
it’s connection, closeness, grounding, and a true act of love
If your husband is coming to ask for sex, that already means you’re not initiating.
And if you’re never initiating, then the real issue isn’t “respect her choice,”
the issue is you’re not choosing him at all.
A man well-sexed isn’t coming to you, he’s begging for breaks.
Sex in marriage is a privilege
it’s your chance to become closer, to strengthen him, to keep the relationship alive instead of letting it wither.
So yes, you can say “no”…
but if “no” becomes your pattern, don’t pretend you “understand relationships.”
Because a woman who refuses to initiate, refuses to connect, and refuses to meet her husband’s most basic bonding need isn’t ready for marriage and she definitely doesn’t understand her man.