When you in a serious relationship, you’re suppose to move differently. Yeah you grown you can do whatever you want, but certain things are out of respect you have for your partner! It’s not about being controlled or about your partner being insecure it’s a respect thing.
I put a bid on a jacket that I could live without and someone outbid me. Thank lawwwddd that was the sign I needed. Now I’ll spend that money on shoes heh