@cupidsgf_@komahipisskink well u dont need to be a mental health professional to have some basic human empathy… i fear people are just too selfish and stupid these days and use it as an excuse to act incompetent
@stringmeat@komahipisskink not everyone is self aware enough to realize what theyre doing and having that kind of self awareness is also a privilege. yes they should also get help to become more self aware but not everyone has that innately like i genuinely dont get what point ur trying to make here LMAO
@stringmeat@komahipisskink i get what ur saying with that 1st part but that last part genuinely doesn’t make sense at all it is absolutely not more privileged to wallow in it how tf did you even come to that conclusion. if anything both wanting to recover and having the resources to recover is privileged
@stringmeat@komahipisskink ur right but idk why you’re saying this to me under my reply cause this kinda doesn’t have anything to do with what i originally said but ok you go girl
@cupidsgf_@komahipisskink why are you arguing with me about things i never said? people are totally allowed to not want to put up with pwbpd. all im saying is getting help is harder than people think i do think people should go get help its just way easier said than done
@cupidsgf_@komahipisskink where did i say people HAD to deal with pwbpd tho. ur just putting words in my mouth. all i said was its kinda privileged to say “just go get help” cause its more complicated than going to the hospital front desk and saying “hi id like 1 help for bpd please”
@komahipisskink its like so much more nuanced than these people are making it out to be. yeah sure its their responsibility to get help but not everybody can, getting actual real professional help is HARD and it’s a process and omfg these people just pmo so bad
@komahipisskink the whole “just go get help its ur responsibility” thing has always pmo because thats genuinely such a privileged take. not everyone has insurance or can afford to go see a psychiatrist or they might be stuck in a situation where they cant like an abusive household or something
@perfnormalfem sorry but if youre going to openly make fun of yourself on the internet you kinda need to be ready for other people to join in and make fun of you too sorry just my #opinion
femme makes a post dehumanizing/stereotyping butches: “omggg guyssss its just a joke you’re taking it too seriously calm down”
person makes a post making fun of those femmes: “guys this is going too far… you’re being too mean… you need to stop this is so weird…”
@funnyfarts67 and its like fine if you want someone to do everything for you because thats your kink fine im sure there some big daddy butch out there who does wanna change ur diaper but stop tryna push that stereotype/role onto every single butch and call it a butchs “life purpose” like okay.
@funnyfarts67 as a lesbian im fucking tired of all this lesbiantwt bullshit i never chime in on any discourse but like its getting ridiculous. like girl lets start treating each other like normal human beings instead of potential personal servants and sex toys can yall just act normal for once
@funnyfarts67 annoying asf mind you i see butches getting shit ALL THE TIME over some bs but the ONE time people start calling out a femme for acting weird its “youre all being misogynistic!! this is misogynistic to femmes!!” as if butches cant experience misogyny too or something like…..????