gerariana

the ghost of gerariana.

[gerariana @perfnormalfem]

@femmelambkin thats how it is for most lesbians who dont let a tweet shatter their entire sense of self

[kyra ˙⋆✮⋆˚࿔ @femmelambkin]

like maybe this particular butch likes princess treatment and her femme enjoys being the breadwinner or vice versa no one should feel entitled to anything !!! each person brings something to the relationship it doesnt have to be exactly the same

[kyra ˙⋆✮⋆˚࿔ @femmelambkin]

i just got back on this forsaken app so maybe i have no horse on this ride but on the topic of butchfemme dynamics and what does each person bring to the table.... i think it's personal like butches & femmes should go without expectations and establish their own dynamics together

[amy ♡ ifb! @sweetenerwishes]

i want this video tattooed onto me.

[aura⊹ ࣪ ˖ ໒꒱ @linguistlez]

and i think we also need to unpack why when a femme says they get princess treatment the first assumption is that they don’t treat their partners nicely in turn. do you people seriously think we are ALL in one sided relationships??!

[aura⊹ ࣪ ˖ ໒꒱ @linguistlez]

i think we need to unpack why the concept of a femme experiencing devotion as their primary form of love from their partner is such an abhorrent thing to thousands of people on this app

[gerariana @perfnormalfem]

@linguistlez its interesting how they immediately believe it must be toxic or forced

[aura⊹ ࣪ ˖ ໒꒱ @linguistlez]

what i learned from this “femmes are bums” discourse is that yall don’t have dykes that are dedicated to giving you the princess life and that’s kind of your business idk

[gerariana @perfnormalfem]

@ilovebeesbeebop dude she was literally making fun of herself. like yeah sure shes dehumanizing butches because she wants her future gf to pay for dinner.

[gerariana @perfnormalfem]

@jjongtoe @lu9jcg no they all think its cute that they suddenly feel pressure to wear makeup pink and skirts because they subconsciously assume their man likes it

[gerariana @perfnormalfem]

@cutievault no fr i say this 300x a day

[s*nja @thenyoullknow]

random girl online: I’m ashamed bc my needs are vast, yet I yearn for someone to love and take care of me. It feels like I have nothing to offer besides [my looks].

twitter lesbians for some reason: Yeah that’s really weird. you’re right that you are an embarrassment to us all

[gerariana @perfnormalfem]

@windingcloth they do this weekly. its just like the pillow princess discourse. obviously no one is interested in a one sided relationship, what is the correlation? now everyone is showing their true colors and blowing this way out of proportion.

[gerariana @perfnormalfem]

@arimoon_agb @diarypalee she lost weight, dissolved her fillers, and shaved her brows.. is it a crime?

[gerariana @perfnormalfem]

@mrjyke @seastarfemme but i feel like you guys dont know how these people reciprocate. you only see what they want to speak about on their twitter pages. you guys assume that the femme is doing nothing because they want a butch who does certain things. its like the pillow princess discourse.

[gerariana @perfnormalfem]

@scrthrlvr @kiraraswren so you notice that op is baiting & still let that shatter your entire sense of self? how can someone on twitter tell you what your life’s purpose is?

[gerariana @perfnormalfem]

@186X404 @LittahMem @chofistrofiss where to transgender and intersexuals reside in this?

[gerariana @perfnormalfem]

@scrthrlvr @kiraraswren in different ways. the op said that they were exaggerating. if you can love people in different ways, then how could ones reality affect a random individual?

[gerariana @perfnormalfem]

@TruthAcorn straight people say “my man”, “my girl” “my lover”. what is so glib about being a butch or femme? two of the most important labels in lesbian culture? two labels that cannot go without the other, entwined throughout history, devoted to each other?

[gerariana @perfnormalfem]

@BunnyMaeBelle_ iykyk. too many people take these types of posts too literally, but we never have a problem finding butches who like doing these things. its way easier to understand when you are in a consenting relationship, and not an angry twitter circle.. its also normal to feel guilty cuz..