heterosexual tiktok posting is a constant pendulum swinging between “my big strong man guides me everywhere and I get to turn my brain off” and “my husband doesn’t know the difference between a pomegranate and a red onion”
hot take: friendship requires the same intentionality we give to (early) dating
> go to their party even when you're tired
> stop cancelling last minute
> host at your place
> drive your friends to the airport
> support the wins & losses
it's worth every ounce of effort!!
One of my worst fears was that my friends all secretly hated me and wished bad things upon me and then I overheard some of my friends saying really mean things about me and it sucked but oh my god I was finally free