@Dx_Is_Dead@Lanaanameer@dearbheki I can see how my og statement can be depicted that way but youre still choosing to miss my point. There’s still a deep concern some hetero women have of possibly not meeting all of their bi partners emotional/sexual needs regardless of that man being monogamous.
@anonymi3356@Lanaanameer@dearbheki That is honestly so beautiful! I love that you guys found each other and are able to work through hard convos 😪. I wish more people were mature on this app but I can truly appreciate you specifically sharing all of that. I would strongly agree w you that love trumps all
@anonymi3356@Lanaanameer@dearbheki Genuinely curious, what do you do IF that burst of attraction turns into something you constantly think about then feel the need to pursue? Ik anyone can have self control, but the lack of deep/honest conversation ab emotional/sexual needs is detrimental to any relationship, no?
@Dx_Is_Dead@Lanaanameer@dearbheki All understandable and obvious. The point is that full disclosure of my partners sexual orientation is owed to me, and it’s up to me what I choose to do nxt. Simple.
@fleurs_alt@Lanaanameer@dearbheki Thats why I asked a question???? Its natural for humans to make assumptions and make decisions based off of those assumptions???
@Lanaanameer@dearbheki And cheating isnt ever okay… you’re implying that theres no difference between men fulfilling unmet needs w multiple women compared to fulfilling needs with men and women…. Theres a big difference simple.
@Lanaanameer@dearbheki Nice point but maybe we’re talking ab different stages in dating. Hetero sexual women have a right to assume we wont be able to satisfy a bisexual man long term. It’s less of an insecurity thing and more of an unwillingness to do certain sexual things.
i learned ants really have no concept of us as humans because of their limited eyesight and how big we are to them. they see us as moving shadows, or wind, or like obstacles and landscape (i imagine mountains). makes me wonder what’s in front of me right now that’s too large for me to comprehend.
@Lanaanameer@dearbheki Do bisexual people not desire sex from both men and women? BEING BI IS NOT THE ISSUE, YOUR STRAIGHT PARTNER EVENTUALLY NOT MEETING ALL YOUR NEEDS MAY BE
@gay__rights@hescanceIIed@amandanvc back to sexuality, if i find some women sexually attractive, I can still know I prefer a man to a strap w/o getting strapped by a woman. I can decide that a woman wont meet all my needs and vice versa. Doesn’t matter if Im “missing out” my personal beliefs shapes my preference
@hescanceIIed@amandanvc Strongly disagree, you dont have to try something to know you instinctively dont prefer it.
If I have texture thing with food and the smoothness of a pancake isnt appealing to me then I have a right to say I prefer waffles w/o ever eating a pancake 😂🤷🏽♀️
@foxy_red25@amandanvc@kanekalonn If you’re a man attracted to men sexually, there’s something about men that scratches your itch for sexual desire. That means that even if you’re with a woman you’re attracted to, you’re still going to have urges and desires for male sexuality that she will never fulfill.