@FischerKing64 last part is crucial to building anything substantial in life, especially early on.
young, no real experience or success, but youโre gonna tell boomers how youโd do it better?
being contrarian is fruitless if youโve ousted yourself socially as a pest.
have dealt with this a great deal (and still often do) as a 23yo growing up in this ever growing economic landscape.
the whole what do I/should I do question has never been more paralyzing.
managing options is about managing my desires wisely. essentially picking that โone thingโ to pursue above all else.
you end up attracting โwhatโs nextโ this way, without the noise.
@DearS_o_n problem is most young guys confuse indifference with not caring - or in many cases, pretending not to care - a true expression of desperation.
Indifference is developed from within, through reflection on experiences of failure and victory alike.
It cannot be faked.
@DearS_o_n long periods of solitude. opened the door to a deeper awareness of those less than desirable parts of myself, and allowed me to begin down the road of change.
@anuatluru why I never worry about being alone.
when I first got into running, I ran multiple times a week by myself for well over a year.
these days I am never without someone who is down to hit the pavement.
you do you long enough, and ultimately attract what you deserve.
@Neemalation love asking well seasoned strangers for advice because there is no conflict of interest. they donโt care about your โjourneyโ, they simply appreciate the opportunity to share their aquired wisdom.