the advice to "write for yourself" is getting bastardized and/or misinterpreted to mean "do not ever express disappointment if a piece you worked hard on does not find its audience," but what it actually means is "only dedicate time & effort to ideas that excite you"
It's true but also like,
Hajun IS normally lone wolf - coded against everyone else, and Eden IS totally elusive black cat who does whatever he wants,
But Hajun turns into a coy spoiled cat only around Eden,
And Eden turns into a loyal dog with wagging tail only around Hajun