Intinde

Coaching. Strategy. Success Management.

Intinde is a catalyst for change, driven by a desire to help entrepreneurs and executives become great leaders

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✨ Worriers waste time fighting themselves...

While...

✨ Warriors focus and fight the fight..

🔴 Which One Are You?

#LeadersOnlyHere

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How To Measure Success In Business Effectively With A Proven System (The Gap And The Gain)

What does success really mean, and how will you know when you’ve achieved it?

The way you measure success will dictate whether you feel you’ve achieved your goals.

🔴 The Gap : You’re never satisfied with your progress
🔴 The Gain: You feel satisfied, fulfilled, and happy with your progress.

There are 2 ways to measure:
🔶 The first is measuring forward. Picture of your ideal self (or business) in the future, and you strive to achieve it. You’re always trying to progress forward, with the end goal of reaching that ideal state.
🔶 The alternative is measuring backward. Look back at where you started and measure how far you’ve come in your business or life. Even if you haven’t achieved your goal, you’ll still be a lot further ahead than when you started.

💫 Remember:

🔺 Ideals are unattainable. That’s why learning how to measure success is so important for business owners. When you understand how to measure backward, you’ll always be making consistent progress in your business and everywhere else in your life. If you measure forward, you’ll always feel the same as when you started.
🔺 Taking action today. If you’re in The Gap, you’ve simply been mismeasuring. Measuring backward will show you how to recognize the progress you’ve already made.

✨ Start with the past, and you’ll be happy

✨ Are You a Gap or Gain person?

#AssessingResults

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"..To live in hearts we leave behind.. is not to die.."

Thomas Campbell

#LestWeForget

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To Lead..

Are Leadership and Management two distinct activities ?

Here’s my Take:

🔶 Leadership is the stuff of breakthroughs, working at its best when involving human connection
🔶 Management is a means for incremental improvement which includes data- driven methods and real time monitoring

Here’s my Advice:

🔻 Cede a fair amount of control and empower your people. Have them engage in sense making so they can adapt to the changing circumstances of the world
🔻 Clearly articulate your vision and what you value then..

Watch creative thinking take form. All you need to do, is coordinate movement among your people so that productivity keeps growing

🔴 The secret is in Challenging the sacred cows of Leadership, to make room for Real Transformation

💫 What are You Prepared to Do ?

#NewHorizons

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Monday...

Your Monday should be your Fun Day. The day you get to show up refreshed, re channeled and ready to go.

🔻 The day you get to show how you’ve prepared for more.

🔻 The day you get to show your quarterback skills.

🔻 The day you get to show how you’ve prepared for that big win.

Monday, by any account, is definitely the greatest day of the week.

💫 Be a Champion and do it Justice. The good news ? You get to Try again and again every Monday.

So, Is Today Your Monday?

#MondayMood

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Words are spells… 💫

Angela Civitella

#BeCarefulWithWhatYouSay

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🟣 Time Blocking
Core focus: When you do a specific task or activity.

✨ How it works: You divide your day or week into distinct calendar blocks and assign a specific task, project, or event to each time slot (e.g., writing a report from 9:00 AM to 11:00 AM).
✨ Best for: Protecting time from interruptions, managing a busy schedule, and ensuring high-priority or deep work actually gets done.
✨ Drawback: It can feel rigid; if one unexpected meeting or delay happens, the rest of your schedule can unravel quickly

🟣 Time Batching (Task Batching)
Core focus: What kind of tasks you group together.

✨ How it works: You collect similar, often smaller or repetitive tasks and do them all at once in a single consecutive session rather than scattering them throughout the day (e.g., answering all emails in one 30-minute block instead of checking your inbox every 10 minutes).
✨ Best for: Reducing "context switching" (the mental energy lost when jumping between different types of work) and streamlining routine chores like billing, calls, or content creation.
✨ Drawback: It can lead to monotony or cause you to procrastinate on larger, non-routine strategic projects

⚡ Quick action: Time blocking to carve out a spot on your calendar ,Time batching inside that block to knock out all your small, similar tasks (invoices, emails, and phone calls) all at once.

💡 Are You Productive Or Busy?

#ProductivityMindSet

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“.. If the Path Before You is Clear, You’re Probably on Someone Else’s..”
Joseph Campbell

Paths that lead to great things are never simple and unencumbered.

They are messy

They have a pretend linear thought pattern since you’re constantly pivoting and changing in a new direction for your desired outcome

Braving the world with piercing clarity is a work in progress, you got to put in the time

Living like a leader means breaking predictable cycles and expectations to move at a constant pace forward

You have to have the strength that while you are building your vision, you need to put to rest the demons that have been your constant “go to” because living in fear and regret over showing your greatness just seemed easier

Know yourself more to be able to do more

✨ Clear your basement of all the boxes you’ve stored your unrealized self from so long ago. That person has got to go

✨ Respect starts with you. Don’t look for it in others. They won’t give it to you. Earn it for yourself.. first. The rest will follow.. trust me

✨ Respect the pain you’ve carried, honor it and use it as fuel to power through to get to what has been waiting to be claimed by you. Go get it

✨ Make nice with fear. If you do, you’ll never be afraid again

🔴 Be soulful with your courage to continue, to be seen and heard. People can see and feel when a person of deep power enters a room

💫 Be that. Do that. Claim that

To The Power Within

#LetsDoThis

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💫 You become a Leader by the Equality of your Actions… And the Integrity of your Intentions

#LeadersOnlyHere

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Abundance..

🔻 Your morning routine is key..

🔻 Start every morning writing 10 things you are grateful for

🔻 Send love to 3 people that bother you

🔻 Be quiet for 5 minutes… and ask for guidance for the day

💫 Wishing You An Abundant Monday

#AbundanceMindSet

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Poor People..Middleclass People.. Rich People..

🔶 Poor people Buy things, because things feel like Progress... A new phone, outfit.. not realizing that things depreciate the moment you swipe your card..

🔶 Middleclass people make Enough to Look successful but not enough to actually be Free.. So they finance almost everything..They are not building wealth but merely performing wealth.. And it ends up costing them while producing only the appearance of Wealth..

🔶 Rich people Buy Time.. They pay someone to handle their Time.. They invest in systems.. in education that can Work without Them.. The question they ask is: Does this Buy Me More Time or Cost Me More of It?..

💫 Conclusion: You Can Earn More Money.. You Can't Earn More Time

🔴 Narrow the Gap between The Appearance of Wealth and The Reality Of Wealth

#TimeIsPriceLess #NothingElseIs

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Is There an Ideal Time of Day for Decision-Making?

You have to make a big decision, does the time of day make a difference in your abilities? Are your wits sharpest first thing in the morning? Or, if you’re more of a night owl, maybe you do your best thinking in the middle of the night?

Scientists turned to an intriguing source of data: online chess matches.. I know right? 🫢

🔴 Research showed the following: Decision-making abilities do appear to fluctuate across the day: In the morning decisions tend to be slower but more accurate, and late in the day decisions were made more abruptly with less accuracy.

💫 Morning people, tended to be most ethical in the morning. Evening people, tend to behave more ethically in the evening compared to the morning.

Guess this gives you a whole new set of questions when meeting people.. 😄

🔴 Going back to chess playing here is what research has provide to be true:

💫 Players changed their decision-making policy throughout the day: players decide faster and less accurately as the day progresses, reaching a plateau early in the afternoon. This effect was observed for all players regardless of their circadian rhythms , indicating that changes in decision time are mainly determined by the time of the day.

✨ Conclusion: Decision-making is slower and more accurate in the morning, whereas Decision-making is riskier faster and less accurate at night..

How about I Meet You Halfway?

#ToBetterDecisionMaking

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“… The X factor in great leadership is not personality.. it’s humility..”

Jim Collins

✨ Humility isn’t about being passive or weak, it’s about showing Respect and recognizing Truth in all situations

✨ Admit when you’re Wrong my fellow Leaders.. the gifts you will get if you do..

💫 Are Unimaginable

#DivineUnderstanding #RestAtTheEnd

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Cells Behave With Information They Get From Energy Around Your Body. Atoms Share Information.

In other words, you attract what you believe you deserve...

What does this mean? Read on...

🔻 Inner Worth vs. Mere Desire:
Wanting peace, success, or love is different from truly believing you are worthy of it. If your inner story tells you that chaos or the "bare minimum" is normal, you will subconsciously accept or chase environments that reflect that belief.

🔻 Standards and Boundaries: When you raise your self-worth, you stop chasing people or situations that disrespect you. Confidence is not about arrogance; it is an internal alignment where your actions and expectations match your value.

🔻 The Role of Action: While positive thinking is part of the concept, actual transformation comes from shifting internal boundaries, breaking old habits, and refusing to settle for less than what you claim to value

✨ Ask Yourself: What Do I Believe I Deserve?

✨ Now Ask Yourself: What Am I Prepared To Do To Change What I Believe I Deserve?

🔴 I'll meet you There.. Promise.

#BeliefSystemsNeedChange #BeTheChange

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Beginnings...

Yes...That Is Me...

To when it all began.. who knew when this picture was taken where it would lead me

☑️ My hope.. my wish.. was that certain doors would open themselves to me. Check

☑️ My determination was to expand my business knowledge, and gain a new perspective of the business world and most importantly, people. Check

☑️ My ambition was to contribute something at large that would have people show the best of themselves to me. Check

☑️ My resolve is that success, requires being in perpetual motion. Shifting, changing at every turn, tackling every opportunity that is put in front of you

💫 Success is about Action And Grit. In That Order Folks...

Go Get Your Monday!

#HardworkOnly #BelieveEvenWhenNooneDoes

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Gratitude..

✨ Gratitude is a deeper feeling than being thankful
✨ It is a deeper sense of appreciation of people that have left a footprint in your life
✨ It acknowledges how many people have impacted our orbit.. even if in a transient way..

I am grateful for all of it: the good.. the bad.. The bad that turned into good.. Real friends.. even the fake ones.. for they remind me I have real ones

But mostly for the hard.. the costly.. the challenging.. the painful.. especially the painful. It’s allowed me to change, to grow, to show up in the world better than I was told I would..

🌸 Better than I knew Possible

Nothing has been lived in vain. It’s all good.. it was made so .. with your help..

I am grateful for everyone that came. That stayed.. even those that left

No matter what.. you’re all still with me..

💫 Forever and always..

#RememberingTheGood

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“.. Sometimes, just sometimes.. it is the People who no one imagines Anything from, who end up Doing the things that no one can Imagine...”

💫 Find that gem, polish it, nurture it, and let it soar.. it’ll make you proud... I promise you

🔴 Mentor someone today. Change a Life

#SomeoneBelievesInYou #SeeWhatOthersDoNotSee

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Why the 15-Minute Rule Works

🔶 Breaks paralysis: Setting a 15-minute timer lowers the mental pressure and stops you from negotiating or procrastinating.

🔶 Builds momentum: A short burst of action often sparks enough energy to keep you going past the initial mark.

🔶 Reduces mental clutter: Taking small steps replaces anxiety and guilt with actual progress.

🔶 Avoids overthinking traps: Psychological studies show that people often find unguided, idle thinking difficult or stressful compared to engaging in simple tasks

🔴 Consider them "Work Snacks"

#MindSetReframe

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Words could be the difference maker between someone giving up or continuing to push...

Be an Encourager.... the world is already full of Critics...

💫 Here's To Your Monday

#PositivityRocks

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“.. Love the people God gave you… because he will need them back one day..”

✨ Forgive… Release and be set Free..

✨ Do that.. and watch your life be transformed

#LifeIsButAMoment