๐ฌ leizi still hasnโt shared any of his photographs on weibo, but maybe i can understand why. perhaps this is his own way of protecting xixi, and i hope we can respect that without putting any pressure on him.
theyโre both sensitive people who may choose to show their care in different ways. xixi sharing leiziโs photography on weibo is already something to appreciate. maybe one day, or after the drama wraps up, heโll share photos of xixi too. we never know.
whatever happens, iโm already grateful for what weโve been given. letโs appreciate the art, respect their own pace, and leave room for them to do things in their own way.
HAPPY 34TH BIRTHDAY, KIM JIWON!!
Doctor X hitting #1 on Netflix in 18 countries is the sweetest birthday gift you could ask for tonight ๐ฅน
May your path ahead be filled with nothing but flowers, I love you, always๐ค
#HappyJiwonDay#34YearsWithKimJiWon
watching tloa doesnโt mean i glamorize the abusive man or romanticize what happened to the woman even the actor himself finds the characters behavior against the moral wall in reality nowadays.
can yโall just let people watch morally wrong show if they want without questioning their mentality? for me myself think itโs all fiction, show or any media are created to make you have question, about the acting itself, about society, about morality, about something that you have never even thought about before and think critically and can learn to sort out what is good or notโeven questioning about yourself and your life. well, media is sometimes about explore something taboos or uncomfortable topics, its to learn how to prioritizing emotional intelligence and empathy.
watching it doesnโt mean everyone are agree with all the actions in the show, as human who know how to use its brain, we need to use something called critical thinking.
tbh, it doesnโt matter if you still canโt accept all of it because of triggered by the kind of this behavior is beyond moral, thatโs on youโbut do not think or judge other people as โromanticizingโ it just because they watch it.
i watch it, i analyzed it, sorting out which behavior was bad or good, condemning and swearing at yu changxuan's character. o did all that while watching tloa. genuinely think ye pingjun deserves better than to be with a person who disrespects and abuse her to that level.
thatโs the point from me, well other might have different thinking, im just spoke out off my mind because for me, sometimes it's very sad to be considered a bad person just because I watch a drama.
just because i watch tloa, it doesnโt mean i stop myself from calling out toxicity and abuse when i see it in real life especially my โsoon-to-be-destroyedโ country with so many criminal crimes against women. so, i hope you all donโt hit everyone equally in responding to this drama.
xiao yuโer watching leizi and xixiโs interview and immediately breaking into the biggest grin.
๐: โme, me, me!โ
๐: โhey, cut that out! cut that out!โ (imitating pingjun mama)
๐ค: โdid he buy you any toys after work?โ
๐: โhe bought me so many!โ
the way these little ones in tloa are genuinely so attached to leizi and xixi. you can tell theyโre so comfortable and happy around them. please protect them.
a little video to soothe your hearts after all the emotional damage today.
iโm still not over how leizi and xixi can be this cute and fluffy together in a drama thatโs basically fifty shades of changxuan.